FireDancer
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- Apr 3, 2008
I don't follow...So You can call me anything you want, and I can be offended, but I have to keep my "offendedness" to myself?
So then in your view, there is no such thing as hate-speech? It's all just words, and the intended targets of such speech have no right to project their perceived feelings of insult onto the person who made the speech.
Or have I misinterpreted you?
Unless the words become a call to action (kill all <insert here> for example) then no. A word is not hate. It I say Pollock does that mean I hate all Pollock’s? NO, I am one and have no self hatred. A call to action becomes hate speech because it has been deemed so. A word is not hate speech.
I also don't by the I can say a word because I am one argument. I can say Pollock because I am one and you can say it all you want even if you are not. If rappers are going to use the N word without impunity than everyone should have the same freedom. TO say one group of people, based on race, can use a word while others can't is literally saying there are different rules for different people based on the color of their skin. I find this wrong. Everyone is equal and should have equal rights to anything, including speech.
You are incorrect. There is ZERO argument. It is not a derogatory term PERIOD.
If I were to call a black person the N word--even if they use it freely within their community to "reclaim" the word--it would still be slur.
The GAY community does not recognized the word GAY as a slur. In fact it is very much PREFERRED terminology.
You can proclaim from the mountaintops that it is a slur, but it does not make it so.
http://www.gayneighbor.org/offensive.php
Note that this group that published this list (GLAAD) to define what is OFFENSIVE has the term GAY in their name.
A heterosexual on a disboard (I'm assuming since you call the word a slur but do not identify yourself as homosexual)--can't trump what the community has stated is an appropriate term. But it was nice of you to try to defend those who disagree with your reasoning. FWIW--I did not know this--but the word "homosexual" is considered offensive.
To equate it with the N word--is just wrong.
http://www.gayneighbor.org/offensive.php
While this is fascinating it is assuming I will use the value judgment of others to sway my own...which I will not. I don't care what GLAD or any other group feels about a word, I'll use any I want.
And for the record, I am very pro gay rights so the fact I use the word gay or anything else has no real determination on how I view gay rights. Again, it is merely a word, just like the "F" word or "Q" word that is used for the same meaning.