I hope not! I booked a cruise in secret from DH, as he turns the Big 4-0 on May 23! Surprising him with a birthday cruise. He's going to find out at work...his secretary, boss and some of his department is in on this and helping me to pull it off.
Being so new to DIS boards, I don't have enough to send a PM....Is it too late?
No it isn't too late to join, I will send you a pm