That's a big assumption that we have "extra time". You might be surprised that we dont have that much extra time and organizing things allows us to gain a little leisure time. To keep up with my 3 kids, my 40 hour job, and help out my husband, detailed planning has paid off by giving me more free time to spend with the family. If there was ever a chance that I could "chill" from the organizing, that chance is gone. I HAVE to do a lot of advanced planning to ensure that I get the maximum enjoyment with the least amount of wasted energy. Chemotherapy and radiation are not going to keep me from camping at Fort Wilderness and visiting the parks at Disney. Disboards has given me a lot of information for me to realistically plan out what I can do. It is just plan awful for me to look at my kids faces when I tell them I can't do something with them because I am too tired or it's too far for me to walk. Just a few years ago, we were also looking for this same kind of information so we could plan that the kids wouldnt be too tired from walking too far.
So thanks to everyone who has chipped in with the info on my Loop questions. I will be happy to help out Gillian and Take Your Pick in gathering information that could help others.