Hi! I was about 15 pages behind & I have been getting caught up over the last couple of days. We are leaving for our DL trip in about 4 days!!! So excited, & SO stressed about it. I also started a new TR about our last DL trip at Thanksgiving (link in my signature). So these comments are going to be old news, but I figure it's better late than never.
First...sports, of course! I'm glad you didn't have the weekend conflict. But here is what I am confused about. Is soccer & volleyball at the same time for high school? At the HS that I work at, VB is in the fall and soccer is in the spring. So I don't understand why tryouts for soccer would conflict with a summer trip?? It must be different where you live.
Next, CONGRATULATIONS on your new job.

And good for you to go back with them and re-negotiate a little to make you more happy. I'm sure that was nerve-wracking. I can't wait to hear how you like it once you actually start the job.
I also think your idea to leave the boys alone for an hour is a good thing. It's definitely the better financial decision & it will be good for them to earn a little more responsibility. Can't even imagine that day coming for my little guy, but I'm sure it will be here before I know it.
Sorry to be MIA so much but we have had VB tournaments for the last 3 weekends and life has gotten crazy. They are so much fun but wow, they really make the next week tough!