maxiesmom
The Mean Squinty Eye Works
- Joined
- Jul 6, 2004
She specifically asked if she was being selfish. If she has the money sitting in her savings account, has a high income (which she said she does) and is living the life style to reflect that high income (which she said she is), then yes, I think she's being selfish. She did ask the question!
I don't think it is selfish to hold the care and well being of her immediate family in higher regard than a sil who is supposedly fearful of losing everything, but still has plans to go to music camp. Sounds like sil needs to grow up and start making some hard choices.
OP-I don't think anyone outside of Michigan gets how much the auto industry affects everything here. I don't know anyone, from salaried workers to hourly workers, who is not concerned about their job. It is very scary!