If you're paired with others who are better golfers, they're not always upset. DH is a pretty good golfer (scratch or 1 handicap usually). However, at WDW he's often paired with beginners/experienced golfers alike. Generally everyone's got the same attitude-"We're at WDW, let's have fun!" That being said, please do yourself a favor and take the advice of other posters here-try an executive par 3, maybe Oak Trail (DS's first ever try at golf was there), go to a driving range. It's hard to relax around strangers when you're beginning. Then you'll enjoy the Disney courses more after you've done all those things at home.
If your husband is behind slow golfers (instead of playing with them and forming a relationship with them) and doesn't come home griping about the slow golfers in front of him - he's a saint. I'm not a great golfer, but I don't mind playing with people worse than I am, and have found that most people are gracious paired with me. But I also know that post golf griping is about three things - how bad your own game was, how slow the idiots in front of you were, and how the jerks behind you kept hitting into you (a sign you were too slow, btw). And sometimes how the girl in the beer cart wasn't cute at all
