I've tried a ton... and for the last several years I've kept coming back to the Max Factor 2000 calorie mascara. It is waterproof, but washes off with soap and water. It thickens and darkens but is not heavy. It does not flake off, does not melt and give you circles, it is perfect. It also comes with your choice of a straight or curved brush (I prefer curved). I curl my lashes, put this on and am done. No combing or anything else needed.