So, my Dr appt was stupid.
Then my &*^%$#@ in-laws called with their usual "Oh, if you lose your job will you leave the morally questionable field of finance, and get out of that cesspit known as New York, and get a completely new career, since we hate what you do and the choices you have made with your life...then maybe you'll join a church and save your children and yourselves from a horrible fate of fire and brimstone...." phone call to HHBG.
So, to get away from that, I decided to pop onto iTunes and download some Disney movies for our trip.
Now, HHBG decided that this weekend, he would spend about 8 HOURS "consolidating" our iTunes library, since it was spread over about 3 different hard drives and 7 different folders, since we lost the original hard drive....while he played WOW on the other computer.
First he COMPLETELY FILLED the internal hard drive on this machine, so it had to be removed and all sent to the external hard drive. THEN he spent hours removign all of the song "doubles" since there was a lot of overlap between folders.
In the process, he managed to COMPLETELY ERASE EVERY SINGLE PLAY LIST AND SONG RATING from our 230 GIG iTunes library. EVERY ONE!!
Also, he managed to somehow have our library be recognized as a DIFFERENT one than is currently on the ipods, so to update them, they need to be completely WIPED and reloaded.
NONE of the iPOds can handle the whole library, so along with EVERYTHING ELSE I HAVE TO DO, now I have to put the playlists back together (screw rating the songs for now) so we can try to put them onto the frigging iPods for the trip.
After I discovered this last night, di her help me for the three hours I worked on it?? NO. HE PLAYED WARCRAFT!!!
Then, I went into our room to find something, and all of the clothes he had pulled out to "maybe" pack....he piled at the foot of the bed.
And the laundry he said he'd help me with by bringing the clean, folded piles up tot he kids rooms (and our room) and putting away?? It's in KNOCKED OVER PILES still on the dining room floor.
He's got a dinner meeting tonight, adn won't even be home until almost 8 tonight. I have to pick the kids up early from school for Spencer's Dr Appt to get a referral for testing. He also JUST informed me that the meeting he has on Thursday, that I thought was for LUNCH is a post-work meeting, ad he'll be late then, too.
Of course, he spent a few hours this weekend cleaning the kitchen and bathrooms for me....and brings it up every time I mention all the things he SAID he'd do but didn't. He also has NO ANSWER for why the iPod stuff had to be done this past weekend other than, "It seemed like a good time." REALLY???It DID??? or did it seem like a good excuse to play your friggin video game for 8 hours instead of helping me with the stuff you said you would???
I am so pissed off right now. I'm ready to stay home from the trip and let him try to figure out what is going on, since I planned EVERYTHING, I have packed for EVERYONE (except for his shirts, shoes, and swimsuit...that's ALL he packed), and I have set EVERYTHING UP. I have spent WEEKS trying to get ready for this frigging trip, and he makes HOURS MORE WORK FOR ME with less than 4 days to go until we leave!?!?!?!?!?!?!?
He hasn't even brought the bins with the fabric in them in from the porch from the fabric sale LAST WEEKEND. I guess I will have to do that. TOO.
I will probably be scarce today while I try to calm down.
