Since there seems to be mass confusion about how the list works after the email explaining it, I will explain again. Here is how it works:
1) Find your child(ren) name on the list
2) Say your child(ren) is sending to 10 people
3) You would count down 10 people from your child's, or if more than 1 child on the list you last child, place on the list.
4) Your child will most likely be receiving more cards than you are sending to. Since there are a few sending to the entire list and some sending to more than just 2 on the list. That does NOT mean you have to send a card back in kind.
Now I hope this clears up any problems anyone is having reading & understanding the list. Also if you would like a full, complete, and revised list lmk ASAP.