Im only 21, and just earlier today found out my coloscopy (spell check that one) Came back and I found out I have signs of pre-cancer from the cause I have HPV. The thing about this is.. Ive only been with one person. Which is now my current fiance. I have so many questions and what ifs about this. My mother of course freaked out and does not want me seeing him ever, ever again. I can understand, since we know I got it from him. But he didnt even know he has it. I know he didnt give it to me on purpose but shes making it like he did. Now she is telling me things like, he is going to die since its probably to late for him. She was saying I could also since we know ive had it a few months if not more since the test kept taking so long. But I did some research on the computer and found out HPV is more common then I thought, that it was its rare for men to get the cancer and that most cases it goes away on its own? Im wanting to know who here has it/had gone through this before. I know I can talk to a thousand doctors but its not the same as to hearing it from someone whos been in the same case as me. This is just all upsetting to me, for I told him I love him with all my heart, and I want to get something done for the both us. Hes depressed by it, thinking im going to leave him because of this. It does not help the fact my mom litterally called him a peice of crap and said I dont want you around my daughter anymore. Please, im just needing not only support from the dis people.. but some advice on this also.