goodness me..maybe..i'm weird

as i dis-n't think..it was a
weird question. however, ..i think ...disney often will do "one" of a kind
...extra things , pending on the cruise. [ based on our previous cruises].
....like on the 11~nighter, they gave our "designer~ mouskteer pins".
...then on our old site..., i have to admitt..i was

..when
they did a "dis-aproving" dis-cuss-ing..over the "fun" @ the adult
pool,

...i didn't see any of thing..i thought was in
bad taste. [ ..on the 11 nighter, you couldn't keep.."ian"
from jumping in the pools, + he once came up while i was video-
taping..& "put on a show-

]. later, he was on one of
our excursion....with his "girl"..oh, my...he was very low key...

,..compared to his antics..on the ship,
sooo i'm taking....he was "serious"...toward his "date".

~
( you know, the one you take home..to meet your parents? )
*
on an off note, it reminded me..of the first time..i did this. before,
my father dispproved..of every..girl my older brothers brought
home. so i figured, it was just "habit". sooo i was more than shocked,
when my dad met my soon-to-be fiance'. [ he just about fell outta
his chair...]. totally smitten. & my dad...was a very good judge
of character. psst, he was right,too!

.
i hope you all take some time to meet her. it's true...that's all it takes
...for others wanting her for a friend. [ she is very busy lady. ]
funny though...we're re~writing..new chapters.....over mental-
health < versus> developmental needs.. but to be truthful..i didn't
understand...some of the "acting outs"..until reading lisa's &
andrew's negative encounters. then it made sense....,[ i really had
to bite..my tongue..not to addressed..some of the most intrusive
behaviors...that we ever experienced.] ,

..what kind
of adults...would used..the party noises..to "mouth obscenties"?
on a
disney cruise?
all i 'm saying..if i knew then...what i know now,..i wouldn't have been
so generous..& file assault charges. the nerve..of that person..to
even suggest...all was needed "to have ask permission"...neither
arrogant or ignorance -are good "defenses"- because,..in any
situation/s...no person/s ..(male or female)...has the right....to hit another
person. and there isn't a requirment ..for permission...in a common-
grounds area.
* also, this type of person..are most likely attention seeking, &
therefore,...trying...to riled...those they're encountering ..as a way
to "showboat"...their delusional thinkinh. that's why..i never corrected
the story-telling, or the name-calling..., as they'll never accept their
responsiblities and will "rationalizes" until the end of the world. one day,
they will wake up..and realize..not a single..person...on earth..has any
kindness for their well being.
what i 've learn..in my field...the 2 most common causes,for severe
emotional pain..are "losses"- [ parents, job, loved ones, status] &
..loneliness. while..the most common cause for ineffective coping..
..is feeling sorry for oneself -often displayed..in rationizations, delusions,
& projecting blame. *then one of the fascinating element..of
sucessful coping..{that @ first seem liked a contradiction}, is..." nobody
gives 2 cents for those feeling sorry for themselves...". the reason it acts
as a positive affect? "motivation", for others to care for your well being,
~~~one must first demonstrate..all the "good things" you can be!
overall, we have experienced..the majority doing
dcl cruises are in
this group...working & helping others..& using good manners. &
most of all...out to have some fun!!! [ one time, when ally & pj..shoed up
@ the adult pool....one fellow cruiser..gave them a big greeting....

..& while they're tryiong to "play" it

, they also had great
big smiles.
iam no saint..& i like..the fun..by doing dcl.*no saint, in that i
was accidently..."rude"..to a guest & her daughter..& didn't realized
until she moved.

. it was @ the princess brunch... i arrived
there late...& sit down....in the chair..that they were "saving"
..for another person in their group. basically..i was cutting them off,
& instead of telling me, she & her daughter moved to another
table..., then it dawn on me...oops. i kno..alot of people..get awful
defensive..over saving seats..., but if she had told..me they had
another "party" coming..i would have gladly moved..over. so, if by
happenstance..if it was anyone here, i'm sorry ~

, * it
wasn't til seeing the other party..came.., did i realized ..what i was
doing. i felt bad & wanted to tell them so..but my wife..was afraid
they take it the wrong way.
& thanks for listening....& making me feel welcome!....i think the pre-meet
board..is a good way..to make all the cruises special!...
as for above..that is my job..but right now...we're in the local courts...
dealing with a very sick neighbor.., worst substance/s abuser....terrorizing
...us, @ our 20 acreas...in the country [recreational property.]
..and i can't strssed enough..how effective mental health....101
principles..are! they work!
scape-bookers? here?....well..i got started when i backpacked thru..
europe...* i don't do the typical, fancy style..more like the crammin'
everything under the moon...style,

,. for ex.,..i took our lil'
girl's princess autograph....book, .......& transformed ..into..
a 500 pages..."this is your disney life~trips" . ok?..if you get the
idea..she's spoilt..is an accurate..conclusion,

* kno
those..stickers..they give...on the tours?..they make neat additions.
...we have tons..of disney..stuff...from all the years....since the
early 80's. you kno the disney's catalogs?...their graphics..also are
cheap, neat..things to do.....
to me?..scape~booking..helps with memory & remnders of things
we would have forgotten..so i think..they are neat things to
do, especially..after.....all the $$$ we spent.
yes..i'm basically..a miser [ though happy]...a regular scrooge!
..& donald..my favorite character..because..he tries..so hard.