..on the main boards..someone asked about...
saving "lounges"!!!!, & the real kicker..{for me}..were the
responses given by...some our pc cruisers..friends. i am
shocked...what is being tolerated...on the disney cruises.
fyi, my point of views are defined by,
...i work in adult situations..with those..that cover "every thing-
you can imagined...we are a processing center, and including
medical situations, emergency & life threatening. & people
jus as sick..as charlie..m., what we accomplished...should be
adopted...in every medical facility, anywhere. bold,but true.
...mental health..is nothing like the sterotyping in movies. * however,
there are some really great "movies"...though, not their intentions.
ex., "good as it gets". bad?..terminator II. we don't carry billy-sticks..
4feet long...my staff?..mostly lil'ladies..not body builders...but tougher
than nails. [ painted or not-
]
fyi..,due to my work & getting blasted with every bad word..you
can imagine....we all sorta have "potty~ mouths". * i do try...
real hard..."not to"..on our disney cruises.
[...i jus want to make sure....iam not "surprising" anyone here. &
not to offend..or give the wrong impression. i'm a lil'too old ,
and this is my "front".....
, by choice. ]
..the porterfam's signature..caught my attention. while i'm
not big..on religion...i 've seen/experience..the power of
faith. faith to me , are the dynamics...one truly believes
in one heart, & uses it as their guide on a daily basic. yes,
i believe & live what's written ..in the siganture,
..i mentioned this??, because.........it's our "bread & butter"
in helping....those in mental health to..,to overcome.....the
unthinkable..and terrible losses..life can bring. what did my
research....find.. the interventions..that worked?...2 sources, i
sought...."effective" &..functional" ..first, bibical knowledge & "what
a person already...know & accepts..as their value
systems. [reminders]....makes up 99.9 % of..my current
"presentations"...& iam teaching our future nurses.
why?..here......?...first, wow!....you should see the results! then
..reading..& xperiencing....alot..of simlar mental problems..seen on
dcl...cruises.
..& they seem to be on the increase?
back-to.., the lounges situation...did anyone..read...about..lisa &
andrew......situations? in lisa 's ......they had the person "gold~card"
.. so who threw all her stuff away? [ since it involved..,
a kttw card..then disney..could/should have....confronted..and took
a corrective action? ] noticed...disney did not... and the "gold card"
to me..gives a reason/s "$$$" why,
* fyi, "intrusive" behaviors...for us, have a specfic..defintion by
...committing acts..of encroachments, enter, [rooms/space]
force upon, trespass. fyi, furthermore..it's the "term"..we are
using..to help others to recognize..their needs including making
changes. * while it included illegal actions...but also ..the
group of behaviors ..that are "offensive~inappropriate".,,with
the potential ...of leading to illegal actions.
we then rely on "interventions"...to redirect, and help self control.
inappropriate behaviors....including those we recognize as
...."intrusive" because..we are not legal authorities. (* fyi,
whenever..we determined..a person requires "commitment",
100%...the judge will rule.) it is an requiretment, for us to be
sucessful..to be able to defined our "care"...& to obtained
positive outcomes..& it is why "reality orientation" is such
effective...corrective measure. *disney uses pacification &
avoidance.....to a fault. sometimes, permitting illegal acts,
my observations & a few negative experiences.
lounges X3..,
..."andrew & lisa"...someone..with a gold~card..."delusions of
of grandeau"?..thought they had the "right"..to remove and/
or throw away..their property. but, there are laws
against..stealing? ~reality,"to steal" = taking and carrying away
without "right"..or permission.hymmmmmm? maybe thats
why they didn't "show"...up for their gold card???
who
?..well..we all have the potential. pending the
forces...acting on on well being..pushing..us in one direction,
or the other...so, it is very true, alot of people experincing
..stressors,....are often coming from sources other than themself.
...* the 2 most common sources..for emotional pain , i
have seen....are losses-lost of job, spouse, even status....
..& lonliness, * which goes..a long...way..defending the
"ways"..we treat..others...utilmate effecting our well being?
it's a very scary..thing..to wake..up 60y/o, and realized..nobody
on earth..gives......2 cents... [ hymmmm , i was reading "mark"..
noting..the first 2 commandants..being the most important. someone
knows...human beings,~ really good?} maybe there's something
insightful..to? [ some are their own worst problem..by their choices?]
... so if i was going to address the loungers saving?..then i suggest
"do not" remove others property unless your intentions are for
stealing. instead, "hold..disney" to their policy..& get assistance from
a cast member. psst, can act as a witness..if such person becomes..
belligent..or hostile.
anyhoo...you have a psych. person on board..and ...we're known
for doing it with feelings,
. but...i don't like working on
vacation...really. like..chip & dale..i 'm out to have fun! ....what
i saw..@ the adult pools...& their ring-leader,by rjayl...was alot of fun.
however, i won't being doing the belly~flops, just the
... but still, after reading the halloween...cruise, i think..those cruising
together..can make or break a cruise. and with disney's prices..
why waste the money..even worst wastin time,
?
[ are there really any cheap dcl cruises?]
..the trend....is something..we already know...one dosen't need
a mental illness..to act crazy. but even more significant..is
recognizing the difference..between crazy~fun..vs...dangerous.
& disney.is heading for trouble..for their indiffernce???...well, one thing
that got my "attention"..was no mentioned..they drained and cleaned
the tub.. after those 2..were in?
..exposing children/adults
..families to... yuk!,body fluids..that could cause..serious diseases.
and yet, always giving out handi~wraps..jus an after thought.
oy..sorry for rambling..but is anyone..here concern whats being
posted..on the main boards?
but the last stop on this cruise would be the only one with tapas . . .
. let's jus 
ok I know you said you didn't want any new ideas, but i've been giving this a lot of thought so here's my suggestion.
