She is one of those crazy women who brings out the worst in people. I've seen men get like that. I had an ex-boyfriend whose girlfriend got a hold of my phone number and called me crying once, asking if he was nice to me, did he treat me bad, etc. She sounded pretty distraught when I told her he treated me well. When I talked to him about it later, it turns out he was abusive to her in response to her being abusive to him.