JA and TA did not make love......They had what I term "freaky monkey sex." FMS was what their relationship was based on. I posted this story on the last thread, but here it goes again:
My DH discussed the case with an "expert witness." DH works with a guy who is popular with the ladies and never seems to have a problem getting their attention. Good looking, outgoing, makes good money......Sound familiar? We'll call him the Bachelor.
DH familiarized the Bachelor with the facts of this case. Bachelor then said something along the lines of, "The crazy women are the ones who will have the wild sex. Normal, sane women may have good sex, but not the crazy, wild "freaky monkey sex" the crazies will have. Your brain is telling you to run from the lunatics because they are dangerous, but the totally wild sex keeps drawing you back to them, and you let them close against your better judgment. You cannot resist the freaky monkey sex that your body wants, even while your brain is telling you to get out of there." Bachelor could completely see TA letting a stalkerish JA back in just because of the freaky monkey sex. Too hard to resist.
I rest my FMS case.