Jeff & Amy-5/1/12-20th Anniv. Swan Resort Vow Renewal: Second Time's the Charm!

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I've been putting off starting a new PJ for soooo long, but I'm finally ready to give it a go! I am Amy, dh is Jeff, and this is our second attempt at a VR for our 20th anniversary. Some may remember that we were all good to go for a renewal at the Swan on our actual 20th last October, but right before the VR, my dad left my mom, and there was no way I could have a VR with such upheaval and only half of the family there. We cancelled everything and decided to reschedule at a (saner) date.

So here we are in 2012, and we originally signed with DFTW to do an Escape VR for Jeff, me, our son Travis and his gf Lori attending. We thought we really wanted the MK shoot and to be in the WP. However, we had a whole slew of problems with them and after they changed our cake-cutting location and refused to give us options (ones which were given to other couples -- it boggles my mind that they refused to give them to us, and that was the crux of the matter), we cancelled with them.

Fortunately, the fabulous Karen at Just Marry swooped in and rescued us from ourselves again, and we are scheduled for a ceremony on May 1st at 10:00 a.m. at the Swan's Crescent Terrace. It's exactly halfway between our 20th and 21st anniversaries, so we keep referring to it as our "half-iversary". ;)

We are having Rev. Jack Day conduct the ceremony, Christine MacPhail as our harpist, and a small heart-shaped cake made by the Swan bakery. Kristen Weaver is our photographer -- I *love* her style! And as Karen has received a well-deserved promotion at Just Marry, our new planner is Jennifer Haskell, who has been lovely to deal with.

In the midst of this, we'd made the decision to move after almost 19 years in the same house, and we unexpectedly found a lovely new home but sooner than planned! We take possession April 1st, so now I am in super-panic mode trying to sort through and pack almost 2 decades' worth of life! :eek:

Because of the additional moving expenses, we have had to try and cut back on our spending for the VR. I'd wanted to hire a florist, but am now doing the small amount of flowers myself in silks. Jeff and I did get new rings for our right hands (he really wanted to for some reason, LOL) and I ended up chucking the dress I'd planned to wear for our Disney VR and finally bought the dress of my dreams. It's a huge ballgown and I LOOOOOOOOOOVE it. It's very simple -- the only embellishment on it is a bow with a rhinestone buckle. I also got a little bolero in the same fabric to wear with it. And I'm wearing my beloved cowboy boots, as we're going with an outdoorsy vibe.

The boys will wear dress shirts, vests and ties, but will be in blue jeans and boots as well. Not sure what ds' gf will be wearing, but she's going to do a short reading for us so she'll be taking part in the ceremony, too.

We are spending the first 3 nights of the trip at the Villas at Wilderness Lodge so we can do photos there the morning of the VR (we also used to own DVC there and have wonderful memories of the place), and then moving to our current DVC home, Bay Lake Tower for the last 4 nights. We'll have 2-bedrooms at both, and at BLT we have a MK view (though I don't expect the view to be too spectacular with all the construction going on).

That's it for now ... I'm still working on pulling the little details together. :)
 
Amy, congrats on finally being able to plan your vow renewal. I hope between the new house and the vow planning things go very smoothly for you!
 
Yay!! I'm so happy for you!! Your plans sound great! I can't wait to see this dress!! We arrive on May 3rd... so maybe we'll see you around!!

Congrats on the new home and good luck with the move!

I like your date too :rolleyes1 It's my birthday :wizard:
 
Amy,

Congrats on finally getting your VR the way you want. I am sure it will be spectacular.

We are going to be there April 25th - 29th, so depending on when you come down, maybe we will run into you too!

We love Wilderness Villas. If we were going to be buy more points, it would be there. Our first love will always be Beach Club though.

Good luck with the house. Sounds like a stressful, but exciting time for you.
 

Yeah! I'm so happy to see you start a PJ! Welcome back to the swan sisterhood. :)

Congrats on the new house and happy packing. I hope it all goes well and the move is as easy as can be.

Do you have pics of your dress? I think I remember your old one, didn't you get one that you said matched your flowers perfectly? I might be confusing you with someone else. I seem to remember a floral-y dress.

Sorry to hear about DFTW being lame. I think you made the right choice coming back over to the swan. Can't wait to hear more about your plans!
 
YAY for you! I am particularily interested in the vow renewals since me & my DH are doing a vow renewal also. It will be for our 12 yr (we of course wanted to do a 10 Yr, but it just never happened) at DL! So awesome to hear you have made it thru 20 yrs! Congratulations!!! :thumbsup2:cool1::yay:
 
Amy, congrats on finally being able to plan your vow renewal. I hope between the new house and the vow planning things go very smoothly for you!

Thank you so much! :goodvibes

Yay!! I'm so happy for you!! Your plans sound great! I can't wait to see this dress!! We arrive on May 3rd... so maybe we'll see you around!!

Congrats on the new home and good luck with the move!

I like your date too :rolleyes1 It's my birthday :wizard:

Thanks Deena! :goodvibes We'll be down there April 29 - May 6 so our paths might cross, you never know!!

I'm going to have to get some photos of our different things loaded to Photobucket so I can post them. And it sounds like we picked a great date! :thumbsup2

Amy,

Congrats on finally getting your VR the way you want. I am sure it will be spectacular.

We are going to be there April 25th - 29th, so depending on when you come down, maybe we will run into you too!

We love Wilderness Villas. If we were going to be buy more points, it would be there. Our first love will always be Beach Club though.

Good luck with the house. Sounds like a stressful, but exciting time for you.

Oh, it sounds like we'll just miss you, as we don't arrive 'til the afternoon on the 29th. I'm hoping we'll have great weather at that time of year!

We love the Beach Club,too .... and Stormalong Bay is so fabulous!!

Thank you so much for the good wishes -- it's definitely a busy but fun time right now!

I'm so glad to see you have a PJ. So very glad.

I dragged my heels for too long and now have to squeeze it in -- that's what I get for procrastinating, LOL!!

Yeah! I'm so happy to see you start a PJ! Welcome back to the swan sisterhood. :)

Congrats on the new house and happy packing. I hope it all goes well and the move is as easy as can be.

Do you have pics of your dress? I think I remember your old one, didn't you get one that you said matched your flowers perfectly? I might be confusing you with someone else. I seem to remember a floral-y dress.

Sorry to hear about DFTW being lame. I think you made the right choice coming back over to the swan. Can't wait to hear more about your plans!

Thanks, Jilian! You have an amazing memory! I did look at a dress that would've been perfect with my flowers, but they couldn't get it in time. Then I dyed the dress I had (or rather Jeff dyed it) blue, but after the Disney debacle, I wanted to banish everything I had planned for that day. We went from a sparkly, princessy thing in the WP to a rustic, informal outside plan for Crescent Terrace. So I will try to get a photo of the dress uploaded, even if it's just the one from the website. :)

We did a bit more for the VR tonight .... picked up the vest we'd ordered for Jeff, and then chose shirts and ties for him and ds, so that's several more things to check off my to-do list! :thumbsup2
 
Oh my dear friend!!! I am so excited that you have started your PJ!!! It makes it all seem so real now!!!
Can we have some pictures? Maybe the dress and floral inspiration to get our juices flowing!!!
Much love sweetie!!
 
Oh my dear friend!!! I am so excited that you have started your PJ!!! It makes it all seem so real now!!!
Can we have some pictures? Maybe the dress and floral inspiration to get our juices flowing!!!
Much love sweetie!!

Joanne, you are such a doll! I can't tell you how many times I've thought of you and your beautiful VR to keep me on track and get past my DFTW dramas!

And since you asked, I have gathered some photos to share! ;)

Here is one of my two "altar" arrangements on the little stand that we found to place them on:
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Our ring pillow, front and back:
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The pretty little rustic sand ceremony set I found on Etsy (and it's done in our initials and date obviously, but I've got it all packed up):
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Our cake topper, also from a talented Etsy seller:
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More to come, including the boys' outfits and THE DRESS! :lovestruc
 
Oh Amy!! Everything is so beautiful!! Are you planning on photos at the Boardwalk? I think the shabby chic of the place would fit in so well with your rustic theme!!!
 
I missed your PJ the first go around, but am really loving the plans so far! It sounds like you have a very strong relationship to be able to roll with the punches and endure so well. 20 years is a huge inspiration to me as I start my marriage :goodvibes

I want a picture of the dress too!! Excited to see that you got the dress of your dreams.

And the JM team is so fantastic, they set my mind at ease on a daily basis.
 
YAY for you! I am particularily interested in the vow renewals since me & my DH are doing a vow renewal also. It will be for our 12 yr (we of course wanted to do a 10 Yr, but it just never happened) at DL! So awesome to hear you have made it thru 20 yrs! Congratulations!!! :thumbsup2:cool1::yay:

PrincessMelo, I'm sorry I somehow missed your post earlier! Thank you so much for your kind wishes! And isn't it fun to plan a vow renewal? It's a whole different thing to know that you're celebrating a relationship that has endured rather than one just starting out. :)

Oh Amy!! Everything is so beautiful!! Are you planning on photos at the Boardwalk? I think the shabby chic of the place would fit in so well with your rustic theme!!!

Yes, we definitely are! Kristen has already sent me a schedule for the day, and she's included photos at the Boardwalk after the ceremony. I hope it's okay -- I've saved several of the ones you and Paul did with Randy to show her as inspiration. :goodvibes

I love your sand ceremony set!

Thank you! I was so happy to find something so perfect, and I was really happy with how nicely made it is. There's one bottle for dh, one for me, and then the third for ds, and then I have a Mason jar for us to combine our sand.

I missed your PJ the first go around, but am really loving the plans so far! It sounds like you have a very strong relationship to be able to roll with the punches and endure so well. 20 years is a huge inspiration to me as I start my marriage :goodvibes

I want a picture of the dress too!! Excited to see that you got the dress of your dreams.

And the JM team is so fantastic, they set my mind at ease on a daily basis.

Awww, thank you! :goodvibes I have to say that while there have of course been ups and downs, it's been easy to love my hubby all these years -- he's the sweetest, most loving, most giving, unselfish wonderful man I've ever met. I truly feel like I won the "husband lottery", LOL!! I hope you feel exactly the same way about your df!! :goodvibes

And I have some more photos tonight! We picked up my ring from getting sized today, so I thought I'd post photos of both of our rings. We'd wanted to get matching ones, but just couldn't find something that worked for us, so we settled for these:

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And here are the guys' vests, shirts, and ties. Please forgive the wrinkles/fold lines in dh's -- we ordered it and I just laid it out without pressing it:

First, ds':
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Jeff's:
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And here are my boots and headband!
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And last but not least .... my dress! But the photo doesn't do it justice -- it's so big and wonderful and I feel all silly and girly in it! ;)
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I also have a little cropped bolero in the same fabric as my dress to wear with it, but it's just plain and unexciting, so no pics of that. ;)
 
Amy sweetie - it all looks perfect!! Pretty and understated, yet chic at the same time!!! This will be a beautiful VR!!
 
So glad you're back! And I am so glad to hear that everything is working out now! The details you have are so pretty! I can't wait to read more!
 
everything looks wonderful!

Amy sweetie - it all looks perfect!! Pretty and understated, yet chic at the same time!!! This will be a beautiful VR!!

So glad you're back! And I am so glad to hear that everything is working out now! The details you have are so pretty! I can't wait to read more!

Thank you girls! :goodvibes It's so nice to know that things are coming together.

I forgot to mention that my mother-in-law surprised me by making me a really pretty sparkly beaded necklace to wear. I don't have it yet, because she took it home to make a matching bracelet and earrings for me (and she's currently kayaking in Guatemala!) but I'll post photos when I get the set. It was a really sweet thing for her to do and I'm really looking forward to wearing them! :)
 
Aww ur dress is so pretty :lovestruc I love how everything is coming 2gether 4 u... The rings r gorgeous :cool2: congrats on 20 yrs :goodvibes
 












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