Kimmar, God Bless you -I can't imagine driving that long and making a post 8pm ADR-but if your DS has a girlfriend, I'm assuming that your kid(s) are older-my 11 DD

gets really cranky if she's tired

, my 3 1/2 would just be slap happy

along with his mommy.
Are you set on eating in Epcot that evening? (I never ate at Alfredo's either but have eaten at Crown & Rose, Chefs de France and Morocco's restaurant if you are curious about any of those.
(I also just read a really nice review on Raglan Road (Irish) at Downtown Disney.)
It's funny that you mention not doing WCC-I had been thinking about it doing it one night since we want to check out the WL holiday decorations and supposedly you can take a holiday carriage ride (for a fee of course). (The Wilderness Lodge being the family's personal favorite-till this point-I had to sell them on AKL with all the great info on this site-change is good sometimes...

) Anyhow DD and DH not keen on the idea, especially DD because she is sure that they will tease her and do something humiliating to her

-and she's probably right because they look for people who look uncomfortable-they're more fun to tease! (My son on the other hand would probably love it!)
But as far as the food at WCC, I'm pretty sure they have any a la carte menu and not everything is barbequed???
Wendy, I wish you were going before I had to make my ADRS (mid June), because I also want to try three of yours-Le Cellier, Coral Reef and Concourse. I thought instead of eating at WL, we'd eat at Concourse and then ferry over from the Contemporary to the WL. Everyone is going to have to give a full report when they come back..................
Patricia