Hey guys-I need a little help here

I'm posting my itinerary here since it includes so much down time at the AKL

and you all are so helpful

...ok I didn't know where else to turn so please grab a Zebra Dome and some coffee...
My DH laughs at me because I think I 'm really laid back but then I feel compelled to make a detailed WDW itinerary for our trip (He's the true type A in the house ...)...but I have learned so much for all the wonderful people on the Jambo site....
My family's trip is in December as many of you know (and if you didn't-the ticker is a give away) Most recently (3 years ago) we stayed at WL-loved it... but we are trying the AKL this time since I fell passionately in love with it..I had to sell my DH and DD since they are creatures of habit but now everyone is totally jazzed. We want to fully experience all AKL has to offer, activities, restaurants, animals, of course...no sunrise safari this time since we aren't staying concierge...but there is always next time
(Our cast of characters includes:
myself , dh , dd 12 and ds 4, (whose favorite Disney characters are Stitch, Pluto, Mickey and Donald).
I really want to take time at the hotel and enjoy it since there are a lot of activities they offer as so many of you have mentioned-culinary tour, cookie decorating, story telling, etc. I also want to include some "special events", ie character meals, tours, etc. so we aren't just theme park running...
So I have created the following tentative itinerary and I would be grateful for any feedback/suggestion, etc.
Day 1 Arrive AKL mid afternoon

, take culinary tour at 4, Have Dinner at Boma 5:40 and then just relax and explore resort
Day 2 MK at rope drop with Lunch at Tony's @12, A little afternoon R&R at AKL-maybe an activity or swimming? Raglan Road for Dinner and a little shopping at Disney's Marketplace
Day 3 Lilo and Stitch Best Friends Breakfast @8:10, monorail to GF to see holiday decorations and Gingerbread House. Monorail to Epcot World Showcase by 11-Child Friendly tour of WS. Late Lunch at Le Cellier @1:30, Finish WS-back to hotel for evening-maybe some storytelling AKL
Day 4 Donald's Breakfast at AK @8:10-tour AK in morning -Back to AKL for cookie decorating at Boma @1:00

& relax . Back to AK for 3:30 Jolly Jingle Parade. Jiko for Dinner @ 6:00
Day 5 Epcot FW at drop-just Living Seas, Soarin, Spaceship, maybe TT. Lunch @ Coral Reef . Back to AKL-for a little R & R
MVMCP 
@7, maybe dinner at Plaza 4:50 or Mara?
Day 6 MGM-lunch at Sci Fi, Fantasmic Dinner at Brown Derby then Osbourne Lights (This day is a little clumsy-doesn't make sense to go back to the hotel timewise.)
Day 7 Family Magic Tour at MK @9:45 till !2:30?) Back to AKL, Dinner at either AP or FF (still deciding & maybe carriage ride or Illuminations depending on dinner location...
Day 8 Breakfast at Boma and home....
Please feel free to offer suggestions or comments-I have gotten fabulous advice from everone already but if you can think of anything I might have missed...
