Is This Month's Dream Month Tearing Friends Apart?

[JulyGirl]

I get the reverse. I've had "friends" who have like 3 sets of ears on them. Knowing I am winless, they message, "Ha Ha, I got more dream ears and you still have none." Yes, I did delete.

 

[aengus]

I get the reverse. I've had "friends" who have like 3 sets of ears on them. Knowing I am winless, they message, "Ha Ha, I got more dream ears and you still have none." Yes, I did delete.

you can use that room on your list for some real friends

 

[BriarRosie]

My experiences with dreams month, so far, have been mostly positive. I must admit, though, I have seen a lot of negativity associated with the prizes and some of my friends that I didn't expect to see. I am always glad when my friends win and share in their joy when they show me their new toys. I am saddened to see some others whine and complain about not having won anything. It starts a trend of negative thinking and that's never a good thing. I will continue sharing in the joy I see when peeps win and try turning the complainers around with some laughs and reminders that they are not alone. If nothing else, I feel better knowing I'm a happy lose.her rather than a bitter complainer.

Well, I could always sing "High Hopes" again.

I know I voiced my own frustrations in your presence, but I always followed it
with an "I shouldn't complain because..." comment. I think I've been both
negative and positive. I did have fun reconnecting in rooms with friends.
If you've found friends that mostly complained and didn't find the fun visiting
with friends, I'm really sorry for that.

 

[Poohdent]

Maybe VMK will give to all at end of the month that is my dream

Winnie

 

[bytheblood]

I have met so many more new Dis Members bc of this month. I have not had one stinkin' dream, but I am glad to have met the many new ppl I have. If it were not for Dreams month, I would not have met BriarLori, CatHerder, Hollywood, DemonLlama (Disney), and the many others I have come across.

Yay for Dream month - and I am still a lose.her!!!

 

[Shaymojack]

I have met so many more new Dis Members bc of this month. I have not had one stinkin' dream, but I am glad to have met the many new ppl I have. If it were not for Dreams month, I would not have met BriarLori, CatHerder, Hollywood, DemonLlama (Disney), and the many others I have come across.

Yay for Dream month - and I am still a lose.her!!!

Go lose.hers!

 

[Cardinal]

I've actually spent more time with old friends and have made plenty of new ones thanks to this promotion. Aengus no longer has to make excuses for being seen with me in public!

 

[BriarRosie]

I have met so many more new Dis Members bc of this month. I have not had one stinkin' dream, but I am glad to have met the many new ppl I have. If it were not for Dreams month, I would not have met BriarLori, CatHerder, Hollywood, DemonLlama (Disney), and the many others I have come across.

Yay for Dream month - and I am still a lose.her!!!

Ok, but I don't think I know your VMK title.

 

[aengus]

I've actually spent more time with old friends and have made plenty of new ones thanks to this promotion. Aengus no longer has to make excuses for being seen with me in public!

oh yes i do LOL

 

[cat_herder]

Ok..
Ever Since Dream Month Was Brought To Vmk People that Have Great
Friends are being teared apart from Them.
I Mean like How Could u Just Abandon Your Friends Or Best Friends.
Bc Another One Of there friends has a whoe a lot of dream stuff
like i have been losing some of my friends
But I'm Tellling You this Vmk didn't realize what this could do to friendship or
anything else in vmk.

Everyone Just Please Realize That Always hold on to your friends
try not to feel left out .
I Know the feeling trust Me.

Why would your friends turn against you? It's not your fault if they got nothing or you got 2 things. It's the host that give things out; and since they are not trablable no one can do a thing about it.

I don't think these people were your friends to start with.

 

[LadyDooley]

As much as I would like cartoon stuff on a computer, I treasure my friendships so much more, It is likely that most of them will have the stuff well before me.


Reality is, those who are on my friends list are there because I want them there, they are, well, my friends! (I am one of those picky friends list ppl)

I am truly happy for my friend who got stuff and I hope they get more! I know if it was the other way around, they would be happy for me too...

 

[Belle1997]

After reading so many posts of how other disers have treated other players I wanted to thank all my friends not once did anyone tell me something bad to hurt my feelings, they were all genuinely excited for my wins. Lots of happy tears.

I guess I am a lucky person more than I thought before I won the room. Not because I won grand prize...... but because I am surrounded with caring disers. And that is what makes me truly lucky or what I like to say blessed.

Also what made this win extra special was this. Bug saw the new castle suite. She knew she wanted it so she would have a place to go and remember Ink's wish trip. Since they had had a special tour of the castle room. I knew the odds were slim, so I promised that if I win I would give her a gold door so she could come any time see wished.

I was so excited not for me but that I could share this gift I so wanted to do.
I guess that is why I feel lucky. That I was able to give something special to a friend. That was my first thought after not being able to thank Hula right away. Was I got to tell Bug. She was the first I contacted and the first in the room. I was so excited that I could do this for her. That is what Disney dreams are sharing and caring, feeling happy for others, friendship and hope.

I am still sending out pixied dust to Bug so she can win her own room.

 

[FilamentTheBright]

I believe that in most cases my good friends and I have cheered each other on. We have been genuinely happy when they have won and have done what we can to cheer others up when they have not.

For those who have mocked others, shame on you. You do deserve to be deleted.

Has it changed anything? No. What it has done is shown the true nature of people.

So, now, Ant, Happy, Cord and all the others.... I am holding Grumpy hostage. Hand over the Ears, Pins and Rooms or the Gnome gets it.

jk.

 

[souper]

I believe that in most cases my good friends and I have cheered each other on. We have been genuinely happy when they have won and have done what we can to cheer others up when they have not.

For those who have mocked others, shame on you. You do deserve to be deleted.

Has it changed anything? No. What it has done is shown the true nature of people.

So, now, Ant, Happy, Cord and all the others.... I am holding Grumpy hostage. Hand over the Ears, Pins and Rooms or the Gnome gets it.

jk.

Please don't hurt the gnome! Please don't hurt anyone.
I think this month I have experienced more highs and lows than any other time on vmk. In my opinion the Dreams Promotion had brought out the absolute best in people and also a lot of frustration. Mood swings vmk style.

I feel most people are very excited to see others win. I know I am truly happy to see friends win. While there are days (and I speak for myself) take Saturday for example...after spending 8 hours on just one day hoping for a dream item...and with no luck...it does get frustrating. I was not mad that others won; I was just temporarily frustrated and need a vmk time out. Even when I am frustrated, I am still happy for those that have won.

Last night I learned there is a frustrating part that comes from getting the first dream win. Yes, as exciting as it is, soon after you go in to how can I help my friends get a dream mode.

When I have been frustrated some old and new friends that have picked up my spirits, gave encouragement and tried to help. Friends you have been priceless! And you know I have a hectic 2 weeks in real on top of vmk. I do hope I have lifted the spirits of a few people when they are down or bored waiting, and waiting...(or friends feeling frustrated that they have been lucky and can not get any extra dreams prizes to friends in need. )

This month we will need to be there for each other. Unfortunately, like in life some of my vmk friends have seen laughter and tears this month. If you start feeling down, try to message a friend. Be honest with them. Take a few minutes out of the dream hunt...and sit back and have some laughs one on one.

The list of winners continues to slowly grow. As the list grows it becomes more of a challenge to remember who just got their first dream item. If I miss saying congratulations to anyone ..."Congratulations!" And to those still waiting, I visit that wishing well in Snow White's Forest every day. Current wish: "I wish I may I wish I might...See all my friends in dreams ears tonight!" VMK Cat was there today (hopefully afk) otherwise she probably thinks I am looney tunes!

As I said to some friends at the start of this promotion, each day I look at the q button, hoping to see a quest for ears or the room to really make many dreams come true at once.

Hugs Everyone!
Happy

 

[Bugdozer]

After reading so many posts of how other disers have treated other players I wanted to thank all my friends not once did anyone tell me something bad to hurt my feelings, they were all genuinely excited for my wins. Lots of happy tears.

I guess I am a lucky person more than I thought before I won the room. Not because I won grand prize...... but because I am surrounded with caring disers. And that is what makes me truly lucky or what I like to say blessed.

Also what made this win extra special was this. Bug saw the new castle suite. She knew she wanted it so she would have a place to go and remember Ink's wish trip. Since they had had a special tour of the castle room. I knew the odds were slim, so I promised that if I win I would give her a gold door so she could come any time see wished.

I was so excited not for me but that I could share this gift I so wanted to do.
I guess that is why I feel lucky. That I was able to give something special to a friend. That was my first thought after not being able to thank Hula right away. Was I got to tell Bug. She was the first I contacted and the first in the room. I was so excited that I could do this for her. That is what Disney dreams are sharing and caring, feeling happy for others, friendship and hope.

I am still sending out pixied dust to Bug so she can win her own room.

Dearest Belle ,

I don’t know what to say. You have me sitting here in tears . You are such a kind and thoughtful friend that really listened when I stated my feelings on that new room.

I can remember seeing the picture of the new room and it gave me goosebumps. The minute I laid eyes on it, it brought back a flood of memories to me. I can still see the happy shocked look on the boy’s faces when they found out they were getting a private tour of the castle suite. Then there was the sheer joy on Ink’s face when he was handed the key to open the room. The real room is simply amazing. We were so excited that day. When ever I go into Belle’s room it makes me a little teary eye as I can still see us all in the room looking around in awe. I have spent some wonderful time sitting by myself in the serene surroundings of Belle’s castle room enjoying my memories of that day. The room is amazing and beautiful in VMK but not as wonderful as my memories.

Thank you Belle for your kind words and great friendship. Thank you for letting me be the first guest in your new room and for my special private door to a place that will bring me joy. If I am unable to win my own I will always have yours to enjoy. My dream is someday they make the room obtainable for all to be able to have. In the meantime thanks Belle for sharing and thanks Disney for the memories of a most special day.

Bug