is it wierd for me to have 2 attendants if my boyfriend is gointg to have one?

[pintradingwedding]

andy is having his brother be his best man -- which is good because he's got like six best friends he couldn't choose between!!!

but i would like my sister AND my best friend to participate.

is that wierd to not have the same numbers on each side?

 

[KT27]

It's your wedding you choose if you want 2 or 25 attendants, it won't look weird. I chose not to have a flower girl but am having a jr bridesmaid, 2 bridesmaids & no maid of honor (could never choose between my sister & best friend).

 

[Snow_White]

Not weird AT ALL! Go for it, it will look perfectly fine. I've been to a wedding with 2 attendants on the groom's side and 1 attendant on the bride's side and it was totally perfect.

 

[pintradingwedding]

that makes things easier now if i could just get half the people on my list NOT to come so i can actually afford this wedding!!!

 

[hfehr1s]

I don't think it matters at all if there is an uneven number. I am having 4 bridesmaids and DF is only having 3 groosmen. As long as the people that are important to you are there -- it doesn't matter if there is an even number!!

 

[princessblueeyzes]

I don't think it matters at all if there is an uneven number. As long as the people that are important to you are there -- it doesn't matter if there is an even number!!

I too would have to agree with hfehr1s.

 

[honeybun7677]

I don't think it is weird at all! I am having 4 and my DF is having 5. There are a set of twins on his side (hence how we ended up with 5 on his side) so we are going to have them walk with one of my girls.

 

[Sunkissed]

*1 MOH, 1 Bridesmaid, 4 Jr. Bridesmaids (not in processional, holding chuppah poles), 1 Flower girl
*1 Best Man, 1-2 Groomsmen, 1 Ring bearer

I am a little OCD about the imbalance, but I'm learning to get over it!

 

[JandJ]

I had a MOH and DH was supposed to have a BM but he injured his hand a couple weeks before the wedding and couldn't get to Orlando. So, my MOH (my niece) was also BM, flower girl, ring bearer, bridesmaid, and groomsman She loved it and if DH didn't have a problem with no one standing up for him I certainly didn't either. I figured getting married in Disney is pretty non-traditional to begin with, why worry about the sides not matching