I am getting married in March and while I don't post on here much I turn to you all for guidance and information. However, I am stuck between a rock and a hard place... If there was only one thing I could have a say about for my wedding it would be the photography. That said, I was never able to sitdown with my photographer and tell her what I really like. I am about to send her all the wedding day information and was wondering if it were rude to send along some pictures other photographers took to explain what I am looking for, what effects I like, poses, etc. I feel like pictures could explain what I am looking for better than words since I don't know many photog. terms. Is it rude to show my photographer pictures other photographers have taken to say, "see this is what I'd like"?