Hi Everyone!
Meg -
You will ROCK this race!
Jo -

On the jeans! I love when that happens!
Paula - Great score on the jeans! Date details (if thats not too nosey!?)
Everyone - Hi
So...BIL/Baby Mama/Married Drama. Yes, theres a story, a long one! It may come out as babble but here goes!
BIL and Baby Mama (lets call her BM!) work together, and their team leader is my BFF Maid of Honour! BM is married and has been for 6 years.
They started an affair in October and she and her husband seperated on the 15th of January. Her husband thinks its because they haven't seen each other much with her working, but it obviously isn't because of that!
DH and I found out about the affair at Christmas, and at this point my BFF still didn't know (dating co-workers is frowned upon if they are in the same team at work, not if they are in seperate teams!) I told BIL that he needed to tell my BFF because she could end up in a disciplinary if her bosses found out and it wasn't fair to put her in that position - they didn't tell her until two weeks after BM had moved her husband out of the house!
So (sorry, I said it would be babble!) at this point the husband still doesn't know about the affair. BIL decides he is going to move in with BM and they are going to tell the husband he is moving in as a lodger to help her pay the bills! In reality, the husbands name has been taking off the Mortgage (with his consent) and BIL's name has been put on, so he is now responsible for half of all the house payments!
On Wednesday we found out about the pregnancy - they told DH and I because BM had some time off work sick and she had to tell my BFF about the pregnancy for the sickness/absence payments, and at that point they realised that it may slip out (Not that BFF would EVER betray a co-workers confidence, but these things can happen).
So I think thats pretty much up to date!

Oh, apart from the fact that MIL is absolutely DELIGHTED about the pregnancy. She can't wait to be a Grandma!
I think there is only me, DH and BFF who think the situation is absolutely crazy. I mean, BM is still married to someone else, has no immediate plans to get a divorce, the husband thinks he is on a trial seperation and there is a chance they'll get back together, all the while his wife is pregnant with a co-workers baby!
Yes, my life is a Jerry Springer episode!
And on that note I am off to get lunch - have a great day everyone!
