When we were there around the 17th last November, they were already doing Osborne Lights, but this year they say they're not opening them until the 28th. Jingle Jungle Parade doesn't open until the 28th, either, along with Candlelight Processional. Of those, I want to see the parade the most, so we'll plan to be there on the 28th, then head straight to Hollywood Studios and catch the lights that night. (If we can get in! I hope they aren't so busy they're closed.)
As far as decorations, some resorts had up their big trees the weekend before Thanksgiving last year, and some weren't putting them up until Thanksgiving Day or the day after. I want Trent and Kristi to see Wilderness Lodge all decorated up, so I know we'll go there, too. At least I know I can get Magic Kingdom Christmas decorations in all the days before Thursday, since they're already up for the parties. That helps! It's gonna be a busy few days! We'll get home late Sunday night/early Monday morning to Alabama, where I'm leaving my car, and I'll be driving in to school two hours from AL Monday morning. I will be a complete zombie that day!
We have no agenda for Epcot, so if you have an ADR that day, maybe we could just run by and meet you there as you're waiting to go in. That way we're not losing any precious park time trying to arrange a 'meet-up'.
Oh, no! That's got to be fixed! I agree with Charleston Princess. If you see Spectro from back near Hall of Presidents, you are right there on top of it and will get great pictures. Wishes needs to be seen from up front, though. We watched from the Dumbo area once, but it's pretty intense back there. I wouldn't recommend it for a first time. For the first time, you need to be out in front of the castle.
Jill will be there Saturday, and as soon as she gets back the next weekend and we have oohed and aahed over all of her Halloween pictures and adventures, we'll start going nuts over the Thanksgiving countdown!