Im sooooo MAD had to rant! (girls yelling and making rude comments when im running)

[catycatcat4]

So i was out running earlier these girls where walking down the street i heard them laughing and junk and a second later they stoped and said "Have you seen the movie bench warmers" in that tone the others burst out laughing.

So i said "excuse you" they started laughing and walked away and making comments so i said somthing idr what it was

The next time i went around they started yelling at me from the yard even worse comments this time so i told them i highly suggest they shut up they kept going i kept walking next lap around they did it again i said i would slap the crap out of the main girl if she didn't shut up they said they didn't belive me i started walking towords them they ran inside i kept running then the next time around they where screaming out the window so i went to to the front door and banged on it heard them all laughing the dad just got home and asked what hapend i told him they where harrasing me and making comments about me running and i left i wasn't done running so i went to get my friend to go with me and run a bit behind me i ran around again they where still yelling out the window but the dad was siting wehre they couldn't see him and saw it and i heard him getting on to them.

I finished my run and later when i was home they knocked on the door all five girls and the main girls mom and the girls started saying all this BS about how she was only wanting to borrow a movie and i over reacted.
SAd thing is the parents probably bought it
I have had problems on and off with these girls for at least 6 years next time i will punch her (i would never doing thing that would seriously injure her just a slap in the face to shut her up)

 

[kaligal]

So i was out running earlier these girls where walking down the street i heard them laughing and junk and a second later they stoped and said "Have you seen the movie bench warmers" in that tone the others burst out laughing.

So i said "excuse you" they started laughing and walked away and making comments so i said somthing idr what it was

The next time i went around they started yelling at me from the yard even worse comments this time so i told them i highly suggest they shut up they kept going i kept walking next lap around they did it again i said i would slap the crap out of the main girl if she didn't shut up they said they didn't belive me i started walking towords them they ran inside i kept running then the next time around they where screaming out the window so i went to to the front door and banged on it heard them all laughing the dad just got home and asked what hapend i told him they where harrasing me and making comments about me running and i left i wasn't done running so i went to get my friend to go with me and run a bit behind me i ran around again they where still yelling out the window but the dad was siting wehre they couldn't see him and saw it and i heard him getting on to them.

I finished my run and later when i was home they knocked on the door all five girls and the main girls mom and the girls started saying all this BS about how she was only wanting to borrow a movie and i over reacted.
SAd thing is the parents probably bought it
I have had problems on and off with these girls for at least 6 years next time i will punch her (i would never doing thing that would seriously injure her just a slap in the face to shut her up)

Have you considered changing your route? Can't be worth all that hassle.

 

[Yvet]

I woudn't change my route for such babies.....
What i would suggest is be the more mature person and just let them do whatever they want to say, yell or whatever.
Just pretend you don't hear them then they will stop eventually.
Now it's so much fun because you react on it.

Maybe it's an idea to put on a ipod (or something simulair) so you won't hear them yelling at you.

Take care

 

[eeyorethegreat]

I woudn't change my route for such babies.....
What i would suggest is be the more mature person and just let them do whatever they want to say, yell or whatever.
Just pretend you don't hear them then they will stop eventually.
Now it's so much fun because you react on it.

Maybe it's an idea to put on a ipod (or something simulair) so you won't hear them yelling at you.

Take care

Yvet pretty much has it covered there and changing your route wouldn't be a bad idea . And just keep in mind that you are the one getting out excercising and running, they aren't take pride in that. And ignore them not worth your time or energy.

 

[TMcDwyer]

I was going to suggest the iPod thing too. It just is not worth your effort to respond. I believe if you ignore it they will loose interest. It does not excuse their behavior and trust me, I know how hard it is to take the high road and let it go.

 

[KittyKitty]

No matter how mad you get, do not touch them. It will not stop the harassing, could become violent, and you would be the one who would be trouble.

Contact the police to find out what you can do about their behavior. Maybe document their behavior. Talk to a family member or friend about it.

Take care of yourself. I am so sorry you have to deal with this. This is hard.

 

[lugnut33]

So i was out running earlier these girls where walking down the street i heard them laughing and junk and a second later they stoped and said "Have you seen the movie bench warmers" in that tone the others burst out laughing.

So i said "excuse you" they started laughing and walked away and making comments so i said somthing idr what it was

The next time i went around they started yelling at me from the yard even worse comments this time so i told them i highly suggest they shut up they kept going i kept walking next lap around they did it again i said i would slap the crap out of the main girl if she didn't shut up they said they didn't belive me i started walking towords them they ran inside i kept running then the next time around they where screaming out the window so i went to to the front door and banged on it heard them all laughing the dad just got home and asked what hapend i told him they where harrasing me and making comments about me running and i left i wasn't done running so i went to get my friend to go with me and run a bit behind me i ran around again they where still yelling out the window but the dad was siting wehre they couldn't see him and saw it and i heard him getting on to them.

I finished my run and I whistled for a cab and when it came near the Licensplate said 'Fresh' and had a dice in the mirror. If anything I could say that this cab was rare, but I thought now forget it, yo home to Bel-Air

I pulled up to a house about seven or eight and I yelled to the cabby 'Yo, home smell you later'. Looked at my kingdom I was finally there
To settle my throne as the prince of Bel-Air

I fixed for you Catycatcat!!

 

[Renysmom]

This is the time when you show how mature or immature you are. The immature thing to do is to yell back, chase after them, tattletale and/or as you stated strike them.

The mature thing to do is to keep on running, ignore them completely. If they start to harass you just run faster and harder.

They have no power unless YOU give them the power

 

[Racey]

its all very well saying ignore them, but thats easier said than done (if your anything like me)

So i'd do as others say and either change your route, and/or put an ipod on and run past them as fast as you can with the ear phones up so you drown them out.

Have you had problems since their mother came round, you didnt say if their mother took their story over yours? If she did then you cant really go back to her, but if she did, then go back if they carry on. They cant use teh same excuse for a second time can they?

If it were me i'd just do the above and try my best to avoid them

 

[Tinkerbellie16]

I agree with the other posters - do not interact with these girls anymore. Ignore them and if they are bullying or harassing, talk with your folks and to the police.

And good for you for running! That will help keep your stress down and give you all sorts of healthy benefits

 

[WLfan]

 

[doconeill]

Do not, in ANY WAY, come into physical contact with them. You will be charged with assault and they will have plenty of "witnesses". Don't even threaten anything.

Ignore them as best you can. If the harassment continues, go through the police. There may not be anything they can do, but that is the proper channel.

 

[momrek06]

For the next week or so, I would change your route. Let the whole incident die down. Then if you should go back to that route ... IPOD on and totally ignore them completely. Do not even say a word to them at all. Remember they are going to continue to yell and scream at you IF they think they will get a reaction from you. Getting NO reaction from you ignoring them, then they will stop bothering you because it won't be fun for them any longer. They were laughing at your reaction ... no reaction, no laughing.

Good luck, OP.

 

[sixbits8]

Always be the better person. Chances are the girls are much braver in a group then one on one with you. If you run into one of them alone they will be the uncomfortable one. Never give them any motivation to continue their behavior. Keep running, enjoy life, don't give them another thought. In my experience Karma always comes back around!

 

[alebisi]

Sierra, I can understand your rage, I was bullied when I was a tween so I can really relate to the yelling and making fun of. As others have said getting into physical contact with them will make things worst for you. They are cowards, they can yell at you but when you yell back they call mummy for help. The only thing you can do now, is talk to your mother tell her the situation and just ignore the girls. If things get worst speak to the authorities or go to an "Anti-bullying" centre. You know, girls like them are just insecure and by making fun of others they think they will fill the empty space they have in their heart. Just keep strong girl, unfortunately in life you'll always have to deal with THIS kind of people, the important thing is to stay strong and do not pay attention to them, because that's what they want.

 

[alebisi]

In my experience Karma always comes back around!

AMEN!. I can relate to that, the two girls that bully me in middle school and high school ended up bad, one was sent to an only girl very religious college (and when she left the other girls stopped making fun of me, and are now actually really good friends of mine), the other one didn't made it through the year, she failed, and had to repeat the school year.

 

[Bewitch324]

Oh, your post just broke my heart!!

Bullies really are rotten, aren't they? I've always been astonished at just how mean girls can be. But like other posters have said: by letting them get to you, you are feeding their behavior...and setting yourself up for possible life changing consequences...they would probably LOVE it if you lashed out and ended up charged with assault or something like that...You are TOO GOOD and TOO STRONG for that!!! You are the one making healthy choices to do the right thing for your body, you have LOTS to feel good about. Do not let some silly immature obviously insecure mean girls take that away from you. You are better than that!!! I know you want to hurt them like they have hurt you, but trust me...it won't make you feel any better. And it COULD ultimately make things worse as that kind of thing can follow you around for a long time. As others have suggested, take a different route, wear an Ipod, or sing to yourself if they yell at you.

YOU are the only one who controls how you feel, they can't make you feel bad if you don't let them. Just tell yourself that you healthier, stronger, and better...don't even respond. If you ignore them, they'll get bored with the situation...but even if they don't, don't feed their meaness...I don't want you to do something that could jeopardize your future. I know it's so easy for us to say to ignore them, but I promise you....you are so much better than they are...don't waste your time and self respect sinking to their level. Karma will come around eventually for them.

Hang in there, and know that there are many many people here who support you and want you to stay strong in the face of these idiots. DON'T play their reindeer games, ok???

Take care,
Brooke