I'm debating whether to apply to a reality dating show. Waste of time or a real chance of finding "the right one"?

[Buzz Rules]

I'm debating whether to apply to a reality dating show. Waste of time or a real chance of finding "the right one"?

 

[Kooks and Bay Bay]

Maybe back 20 years ago you could have had a real chance but these days they are scripted for drama and more fake than real.
I'd say you have a better chance of meeting someone on this thread than a dating show.

 

[Buzz Rules]

Maybe back 20 years ago you could have had a real chance but these days they are scripted for drama and more fake than real.
I'd say you have a better chance of meeting someone on this thread than a dating show.

Thanks for the honesty.

 

[Kooks and Bay Bay]

Thanks for the honesty.

Don't worry you're not the only one looking for love, there are a lot of us still out here haha.

 

[bsmcneil]

Is this for real? I'd love to learn more. I don't know that the actual reality show part would work - but whatever takes you on your journey gets you closer to the next chapter of life. Who knows who you might meet because of it ...

 

[LuvOrlando]

Go for it!

If you have nothing to lose, well as long as you are fairly sure you'll come off ok I would imagine it would generate interest locally. Just keep in mind it is a very public audition for dating so stay chill and I imagine even a loss would generate lots of dates back home if you appear to be a catch.

 

[ronandannette]

I'm debating whether to apply to a reality dating show. Waste of time or a real chance of finding "the right one"?

If you decide to go for it, let us know. We'll all be rootin' for ya!

 

[Living42Day]

I've thought about it, but with my career I don't think it would be a good idea to be so public. It would be fun to see that side of things, though!

 

[Southernmiss]

As a Catholic, I've never been comfortable with the bachelor/bachelorette shows.

Just seem to go against my morality and don't square up for me.

 

[disneychrista]

Which dating show are you thinking of?

 

[fly girl]

It is a tricky one. For me I guess it depends on the dating show. Bachelorette? NO. The new and improved Love Connection? Maybe. (and I have not heard of a revamp on Love Connection, but it is a dating show I thought of I would be ok with. IDK, , I'm old. )

You always have to consider the "spin" they will do. They could make you the sweetheart good guy, or the absolute villain. And they can edit you to make you the bad guy if they want. That's the ugly part. You have no control.

Depends on if you want to roll the dice. It could be a wonderful thing, or a nightmare. Have to weigh the pros and cons. And seriously consider if it could hinder you in the future with your real life, esp with career and family.

 

[GAN]

Which dating show are you thinking of?

I'm hoping it's not Naked Attraction........

 

[bsmcneil]

Oooh, question - would you be one of the options or the person choosing from options? It would feel not at all beneficial to be an option (but maybe that says something about my frame of mind ).

 

[VandVsmama]

I'm debating whether to apply to a reality dating show. Waste of time or a real chance of finding "the right one"?

Waste of time. Stupid idea if you want to retain any semblance of privacy in the future. Great way to end up with every one of your coworkers talking smack about you behind your back forever. And every job you apply for in the future, your dating escapades from reality TV will end up in the interview or might even prevent you from getting hired at all.

 

[Kitty 34]

I'm debating whether to apply to a reality dating show. Waste of time or a real chance of finding "the right one"?

If you get accepted, Buzz, please tell me which channel and time to watch. I would love to "see" you.

 

[Lumpy1106]

Waste of time. Stupid idea if you want to retain any semblance of privacy in the future. Great way to end up with every one of your coworkers talking smack about you behind your back forever. And every job you apply for in the future, your dating escapades from reality TV will end up in the interview or might even prevent you from getting hired at all.

OK, but other than THAT...
Put you down as a "yes"?

 

[bsmcneil]

I feel like there's something in the water/air. My favorite podcaster is on this season's episode of Survivor (which I haven't watched - and it's like your potential show, because I also would watch it and typically don't watch these shows).

 

[Cannot_Wait_4Disney]

So they're going to do a soccer married at first sight?

 

[Buzz Rules]

So they're going to do a soccer married at first sight?

There is one actually, but you have to be a professional soccer player to qualify (and super rich too). Anyway, nothing to do with soccer.

 

[tony67]

So in general I'd say no.

These shows have always been a bit of a "scam" for lack of a better word.
Back in the day people like Andy Kaufman, Steve martin etc.. used to do these just to get the check and some exposure - lots of other actors as well.

In these days of internet clout and all that I'd say not worth it.