I assume none of your children (if you have any) have ever been the victims of constant/ongoing bullying/harassment? As a parent of a child who has been going through it (and still is) I can see how she would feel. She did not pull any triggers, and he made that decision (albeit a horribly wrong one).I am in NO WAY defending him.NO WAY. My son has been in counseling for over a yearand a half, bit it can only do so much. I'm sure that mother feels for the families of those killed but (unless there is something I don't know about) what does she need forgiveness for?