thanks again folks, it really wasn't that much....I really like Dan's quote on the bottom of his posts....
Random acts of kindness, no matter how small, are never really lost. They live forever in the hearts of those who are fortunate enough to be on the receiving end of them.
--Lady M
it certainly says exactly what my parents taught me when I was growing up. I am working on something now for our " nephews" in the unit , and if it goes as planned will be glad to share someone elses radom act of kindness..