FireDancer
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Apr 3, 2008
Why is it so hard to believe?? I came here and asked for advise...I sorted through the beneficial posts and ignored the hateful/mean/judgmental ones!! I don't have all the answers in life, I'm not perfect!! I came hear to get different viewpoints, not to have my life or my parenting skills judged and critiqued. There is much more to my life than what I post here. It's not as black and white as a few of y'all have made it, and yes...even though I'm in my 40s.. I'm still trying to figure things out (due to situations I've never disclosed on here) and sometimes it's nice to have other people give their opinions in constructive ways!! I'm sorry I did and I won't be back!
However, I do want to say thank you to the ones who truly didn't past judgement, that offered advice and understood we all aren't perfect and have perfect lives!! I did as many of you said, and had a heart-to-heart with my bf, I didn't disclose all the details, didn't feel it was needed for it to be believable!! Contrary to how others feel on here, I feel very good about it and the step WE are taking in the right direction! I didn't say it was perfect or fixed...
Feel free to 'flame away' to those that find it necessary....
I find the definition of perfect a bit skewed here on the Dis. There is a pretty big gulf between jumping from man to man with a child in tow and perfection. Somewhere in that gulf is normal for example.
Sorry OP, but from what has been posted by Hadley it seems like you are one of those people who just has to be in a serious relationship (like married or on the road to marriage) and can't be alone and it is unfortunate that you are dragging your son along for the ride.
Best of luck to you on your future endeavors.