If you could change 1 thing for 2010, what would it be?

[OceanAnnie]

My one thing would be consume less sugar. What about you?

 

[DrCavin]

Eat more chiken....

 

[happygirl]

change my eating habits

 

[OceanAnnie]

Eat more chiken....

change my eating habits

I need to change my thing. I'm starting small. My eating habits need a major overhaul.

 

[quentina]

Get my DH to allow us to adopt another child......he won't budge!

 

[NY Disney fan]

Get my DH to allow us to adopt another child......he won't budge!

This isn't something you should force or resolve for the new year. Adding another family member causes a lot of strain and if both spouses aren't on board, it could cause resentment. If he doesn't want another child, you're going to have to build a bridge and get over it.

ETA: don't want or mean to sound rude. I just find this to be a more serious issue than 'change my eating habits or save money".

 

[charming23]

To be more concious of my spending habits and save more than I spend.

 

[happygirl]

This isn't something you should force or resolve for the new year. Adding another family member causes a lot of strain and if both spouses aren't on board, it could cause resentment. If he doesn't want another child, you're going to have to build a bridge and get over it.

Wow that is harsh. Why should she have to get over it?

 

[OceanAnnie]

Get my DH to allow us to adopt another child......he won't budge!

I'm sorry. That is such a hard situation! I hope he changes his mind. And I hope the new year will bring peace and happiness to you both.

 

[bumbershoot]

I would like to become a family of 4. DH is on board, no worries there.

 

[NY Disney fan]

Wow that is harsh. Why should she have to get over it?

To Quentina: (re: the quote above), I apologize for my comments above. I believe spouses should respect each others wishes and adding a child is situation not to be taken lightly in a new years resolution but that is *my* issue and not yours. Convincing, cajoling or otherwise coercing a spouse to add a child is just (for me) unethical. I feel very strongly about it so I apologize if I came off rude. I didn't mean to imply that you did any of these things I listed.

 

[luvwinnie]

Need to start exercising! We got a Wii fitness so that should be a good start.

 

[quentina]

This isn't something you should force or resolve for the new year. Adding another family member causes a lot of strain and if both spouses aren't on board, it could cause resentment. If he doesn't want another child, you're going to have to build a bridge and get over it.

ETA: don't want or mean to sound rude. I just find this to be a more serious issue than 'change my eating habits or save money".

The bridge has been built and crossed....the question was ...what would I change....this is what I would want changed. I am lucky to have 3 great kids....just my personal wish to have an even number of 4.

 

[happygirl]

The bridge has been built and crossed....the question was ...what would I change....this is what I would want changed. I am lucky to have 3 great kids....just my personal wish to have an even number of 4.

 

[nikkistevej]

I need to change my weight- to a lesser one!!!!

 

[Acklander]

To accept myself completely for who I am, and not worry about changing. Does that count as a change???