I Witnessed Something Awful and I've Been Crying All Night.

Don't beat yourself up over this. You cannot blame yourself for something that was not your fault. You did everything right and there was nothing more you could have done than exactly what you did. You tried to help when most people would have ignored the dog and kept walking.

I'm so sorry you witnessed that. I have 3 Greys and 2 Beagles and am a huge animal lover - so I understand your upset; that would have upset me too. But don't blame yourself over this unfortunate accident.

Hugs to you from our household! :hug:
 
Lisa, you did the very best you could do. :hug:
 
*HUGS*

Sorry you had to go through that. I can only imagine how you are feeling..I have a very soft heart for animals too. Please don't beat yourself up over it. You tried and I don't think there are a lot of people who would have tried at all.

Take care..thinking of you!
 
After you get over the initial shock of what you saw..(my wife cries about any roadkill..) Maybe it will help to think of it this way. (excuse me if I sound like an ogre..)
I had a little dog run up to me the other day. I yelled at him and told him to get away from me. The LAST thing I need is a dog following me home..We had a cat last year that came back 3 TIMES after I called the owner. And 3 TIMES she came to my house to get this cat. It really put my girls thru alot, because this IRRESPONSIBLE owner could not keep his cat at home. My girls got attached, and started thinking the cat liked our house better.
I'll take this stance on the issue, and maybe it will help you: If the owner gave a crap about their pet, theyd have kept it home, and moreover, at least had UPDATED info on him. Sure, pets run away..but many for a REASON.
I doubt that the owner is as upset as you. Sure "How could I care more than the owner?" you ask. Because you are a truly caring person, and they are someone who takes things for granted..
I could be totally off, but dont be a martyr. Let the owner hurt, you did what you could. :hippie:
 

I'm so sorry that you had to witness something like that. We have two miniature poodles next door, who run out in to the middle of the 40 MPH road next to our neighboorhood and just walk around barking at birds and squirrels... I'm always so worried, as are their owners, but there is really nothing I can do as far as getting them out of the road except offering them treats, etc.

Don't worry, it's not your fault. You did all you could, and went above and beyond trying to help the dog and to alert its owners. :hug:
 
:hug:

There really isn't anything you could have done. You did more than most people would have. :hug:
 
It is awlful to experience something like that. There wasnt anything you could do so dont blame yourself. I still remember the time I hit a turtle of all things. Im sorry you had to go through this.:hug:
 
Awww, I totally understand and would be the same way. I love my dogs and cry just at the thought that they might get hurt. I also cry when they hurt another animal like a rabbit. Stuff happens but that doesn't make it hurt any less.

You did everything that you could. :grouphug:
 
Thanks everyone. I tossed and turned all night last night and in my head I know there was nothing I could do...but my heart still hurts! I know it was just a dog but what struck me was how things could be rosy one minute and then become horrible within a few seconds.

So watch your pets and give them all a big hug today!
 
Calypso, I am 43 years old. The first and only time I saw a dog hit by a car I was probably about 9 or 10. It still haunts me to this day. She was such a beautiful dog. It's so traumatic to see something like that. I am sure had you had ESP, you would have walked that dog home immediately, but you couldn't have known what would happen.

I'm sending you big pixie dust hugs and please don't blame yourself. :hug:
 
I was walking my dog around 5pm tonight when this cute little terrier started following us. I wasn't sure who he belonged to or where we came from but he would not turn around and go back the other direction. He was very friendly and would come up to me but quickly dart away when I tried to read his dog tags. This continued for several blocks.

Anyway, as were approaching the main road that goes through the subdivision, I was finally able to get a phone number off his tags. As I was on my cell phone leaving a message for the owner the dog pulled away and ran right out into the street and was hit by a car. The driver wasn't speeding or anything but the way the dog came from the side, I don't think she even saw him until it was too late. I was only a few feet away but there was nothing I could do to stop it. It was horrible...like everything was moving in slow motion.

The worst part about this was the message I left...I was basically saying my name and that I hoped they got the message soon as I wanted to make sure the dog got home okay and then without thinking I say: "OMG, he just got hit by a car!". It's like I completely forgot I was on the phone and I feel so bad, like I made the owners a witness to it or something.

The poor thing died almost immediately and the two girls in the vehicle that hit him were just devastated. I called 911 because I really didn't know what else to do. They asked me a few questions about the incident and I gave them the phone number that was on the dog tag. They gave me the name of a vet that handles emergencies like this, but I felt 99.9% sure it was too late.

Another one of my neighbors came up to help and we carried him from the road to the grass. At this time someone said they thought they knew who the owner was and ran off towards their house. It was just a minute or two until the owner drove up and ran over to the dog. He was crying (as were most of us). He carefully picked up his dog and left. I still can't believe this happened.

I have gone over it in my head time and time again and think about the things I could have done differently...maybe I should have turned around and walked him back towards the area he first started following us but it was raining and I was trying to get home, or maybe I should have just picked him up and carried him back to my house. I just feel so badly for the owners. I did call the phone number back and left another message that I was terribly sorry about what happened and the way I handled the previous call.

I just can't seem to quit thinking about this and I know it probably doesn't belong on this board, but so many of us are animal lovers and I just wanted to remind everyone to keep their doors shut and the gate closed as tragedies like this can happen in an instant.

Also, make sure the contact information on your pet's tags are up to date. This poor little dog didn't have an address on his tag and the phone number was a different area code than the city we live in. It was just coincidence that someone walking by recognized the dog.

Oh gosh sweetie, how awful.:hug: I'm not sure there is anything you could have done. I'm so sorry this happened. :sad:
 
I am so sorry hun. (((((hugs)))) You did all that you could, it was meant to be.

Amy
 
I'm very sorry you had to go through that. You shouldn't feel responsible in any way however; it was the owner's responsibility to keep the dog safe. You did what you could... it wasn't your fault at all.
 
Like all things time will heal, but you'll never forget. This just shows that your a decent and wonderful person. It was thoughful of you to even try to get the dog and call the owners. You did all the right things and sometimes bad things just happen. Feel better and don't blame yourself.
 
HUGS!!!

I am sorry for the trauma you are enduring.

Here is another way you could look at it:

What if you weren't there that night?
Would the dog have been hit any way?
Probably yes.
Would the owners have found out what happened?
Maybe not.
:confused3
If you were not there to witness what happened they may never have known
what happened to the dog. They may have never found a body, and may have
lived forever wondering and doubting.

It is very sad, but in a way you were there to give the family closer.

I know it is a rosed colored glasses way of looking at it, but I like it that way,
and I like things pink!!!!
:lovestruc
 
I am so sorry you had to witness the tragedy. You tried to help, you did all you could. My heart goes out to you.
 
I know it is a rosed colored glasses way of looking at it, but I like it that way,
and I like things pink!!!!
:lovestruc

Pink is looking pretty good to me right now. ::yes::

When I took my dog for her walk this morning I had to take a different route...I just couldn't pass by the place where it happened. I know I'll be fine in a day or two and I'm sorry for being such a drama queen. I want to thank all of you for not making me feel embarrassed or silly for posting about the experience. That's what I truly love about the DIS Unplugged board. :hug:

Some good did come from this incident -- I realized what wonderful people live in my neighborhood. Several stopped to see if we needed some assistance and of course the man that helped me move the dog was like a knight in shining armor.
 
Thanks everyone. I tossed and turned all night last night and in my head I know there was nothing I could do...but my heart still hurts! I know it was just a dog but what struck me was how things could be rosy one minute and then become horrible within a few seconds.

So watch your pets and give them all a big hug today!

Not *just a dog,* someone's companion and a member of a family. I would feel exactly the same way.

You did everything you could. Most people would not even stop to check out a wandering dog. You called its family, tried to keep it safe and cared for it when the worst happened. You can't ask more of yourself than that.

--Daneen
 















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