I told him.

[shellybellypolo]

Well, I did it.
After... hm, what, almost 2 years now?
I told my crush I like him.

Everyone's like "OMG WHY DID YOU DO THAT?"

Well... it felt like the right thing, for one. I have to be honest with him.
For another, it made me feel better getting it out.

I know, I know. I'm pretty sure most of you wouldn't have done this.

But I don't really care what he knows anymore. This is the real world.

Life. goes. on.



Discuss your opinions, or if you've done anything similar (to keep this thread pointful... is that a word?)

 

[llamasrcool]

well what did he say when you told him?!

 

[AbsoluteAwesome1]

I WISH I HAD THE COURAGE TO DO THAT!!!
Power to you, Shelly!!

(and I think the word is poignant? I'm probably wrong)

 

[KitKat_Tink]

i told the last guy i liked that i liked him...

turns out he already guessed!

but he was completly cool with it

 

[shellybellypolo]

Haha, his reaction?
"Eww. *drives off*"



I'm sorry kid, but be mature.

Ah well, like I give a good garbage what he thinks. Sure I like him. But he's soooooo immature.

I think he may like me, but his friends disapprove of me so he "hates" me.

What a jerk.

 

[Sparx]

i always tell people when i like them.

 

[shellybellypolo]

Okay good. I felt like people wouldn't think it was smart.

I FEEL BETTER.

 

[Sparx]

my motto:
la vie est courte.
it means life is short.

so live it up. you're gonna get shot down. youre gonna get your heart broke.

its gonna happen. don't avoid it, don't fear it. just life your life and surround yourself by people who pick you up when you get hurt.

 

[BabyPiglet]

I wish I had someone to tell! Haha, I think a crush would be better than nothing right now. Then I might have something to look forward to.

 

[DramaQueen]

oooh yeah i aaaalways tell guys when i like them.
i don't see the point in torturing yourself and holding it all in,
yeah i might be heartbroken if they don't like me, but like shelby said, la vie est courte....and if it turns out they don't like you c'est la vie!!! (too much french for one post)


anyways, i know how much it sucks to reeeally like a guy for a while and things don't work out as you hoped, it takes a while to get over, but eventually things will work out for you, after what may be dozens of heartbreaks!!

 

[Lovela]

Don't worry Shelly. Life does go on! So far I have no crushes. I use to have like 1 lol, but he was pretty useless.

 

[AmandaSparks730]

Mmm, I told my crush that I like her the other week.

Surprisingly, she was 100% cool with it. Told me that even though she doesn't return the feeling, to just go "fishing in the pond" to find someone

Then again, she IS my best friend...

 

[Babyjustrun]

I have a tendency not to tell guys... but you always SHOULD tell them.
At the moment I'm kind of stuck between a rock and a hard place, but I may be forced to do the same as you soon, as school's almost over...

 

[shellybellypolo]

I have a tendency not to tell guys... but you always SHOULD tell them.
At the moment I'm kind of stuck between a rock and a hard place, but I may be forced to do the same as you soon, as school's almost over...

Don't wait until the end of the year.
Sure, it may give him the summer to think over it, and you have a whole summer of not seeing him and confronting it again (if that's why you're waiting)...

But think about it: if you wait until the last day, tell him, then run off into summer, how would he look at you?

Ooh, that sounded kinda rude, forgive me if I offended ya.

Anyways, well said Sparx.


And the strange thing about him is ever since he knew (about 3 school days) he's been pestering me more and more.

I wonder what kind of plea for attention that is.

 

[Babyjustrun]

No, I'm not waiting until the last day. I wouldn't do that.
I'm not waiting for any reason.
There are issues I need to sort through, and at the moment I'm not ready.
Besides, telling him the last day would be AWFUL. I'd be worried all summer, and be pissed when I got back because I probably won't see him too much.

 

[BabyPiglet]

I know you didn't ask for it, but Shelly! You're only hurting yourself by not getting over him.

 

[StitchfansJr]

Sorry, Shelly. I didn't tell my crush I liked him his "friend" did in a very immature way. He kept on saying I liked him for the whole entire day. Like we have two classes together and he would be like "Allison likes <guy's name here!>" =/

 

[Tinkerbell424]

Congrats.
I told the boy I liked for the whole year that I liked him through the truthbox on MySpace and then told him it was me. It got really awakward, but after awhile it was back to normal.

I asked him a couple of days ago if he liked me or not, because if he didn't I wanted to move on and not gawk over him. He was a complete jerk and told me that the way I respond to him is aggravating and if he wanted to be nice to me he couldnt.


Needless to say, I don't like him anymore.

 

[STOPxmickeytime]

I wish I had someone to tell! Haha, I think a crush would be better than nothing right now. Then I might have something to look forward to.

I'm with ya, Jenny :]

And that was brave of you, Shelly.
Even if he did reject you, at least you won't be wondering what could have been the rest of your life.
I try to be forthright like that. It's hard. You're a brave girl.

 

[BAMBIFOREVER]

hes guessed turned out he liked me