I am so excited for you!!! Your family looks so cute!
DH and I decided just tonight to surprise the kids between thier birthdays in 2010 and our first kid's birthday party for '09 is next weekend if that is any indication how painfully long it will be for us!
We planned on sitting in the gate for a different flight for a while then spilling the beans right before we get on, but I like your DH's idea of just saying that we have to connect in Orlando...
DD will be almost 12 so I will let you know how that flies when the time comes!
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ETA: This is creeping me out!!!! I just read the whole thread to catch up and it is mirroring our plans! DH and I decided our cover would be that we are going to a wedding in Cleveland or something, and would have a box wrapped in wedding paper and tell them that security won't let us take it on the plane so they might as well just open the dishtowels we got for the happy couple to put in our carry on.. Sound errily like your plans except we have to think even more stealthily because our kids will be 11 and 7, almost 12 and 8...
Further creepout.. my DS's name is Ben too!