I really have the most amazing in-laws...

Danvers

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On Tuesday, I was in a fairly bad car accident. The brief version of what happened was, I was attempting to make a left hand turn onto a very busy intersection, and had to wait for the traffic to stop and "pause" to let me out. I have to do this every single day from work. Like every other day, I pulled out into the middle median turn lane (I had right of way, no cars coming), looked to my left again (still no cars coming), looked to my right and I remember thinking that once the car on the right passed me, I could pull out completely onto the road and head home. Unfortunetly, there was this sickening loud THUD and I didn't know what happened until an EMT was asking me if I was okay.

Sadly, a lot of people die and get badly hurt at this particular spot on this road, because people get impatient with the light and try to "cheat the system" by driving up the middle median. This is what this idiot who hit me did, and from what all of the witnesses say, he pulled out of his stopped lane of traffic and was going about 50 mph when he just plowed into the driver's side of my vehicle. Never even attempted to hit the brakes. They all also said once he hit me, he very casually got out of his truck, lit up a cigarette, and never even bothered to see if I was okay.

Again, since I don't remember what happened, the woman who was behind me said that when he hit me, I hit my head twice on the driver window. Thank God I had my seatbelt on. My fiance said that I must have just instinctively taken my cell phone out of my pocket and hit the last number that I dialed (which was his) and all he heard was me screaming and crying. He ended up getting the full story from the EMT when they called him, but by that time, he figured out enough of the story and was on his way.

My car is gone. He took off the front end and smashed up the left tire so badly that it was bent all the way inside of the engine area. Again, I thank God that I was driving a bigger car, because no one is sure that I would be here if I was in my fiance's Altima. My car was a 96 Ciera.

Anywho, while I didn't have any major injuries, I still have a very big lump on top of my head that doesn't stop throbbing, so I have a check up with the doc on Monday. I had a hard time dealing with what happened the last few days, and of course, my fiance was a complete mess because he had no idea what had happened to me when I was taken to the hospital.

So, my in laws to be told me to borrow their Lincoln for the rest of the week until we could figure out what to do for another car. There is just simply no way I could really afford another one now, and they were going to let me use it as long as I needed, when they decided to just buy me a 98 Mercury Sable. The car was originally $9,000 at a Lincoln Mercury lot, but with the employee sale pricing going on, it ended up being $4,500. I was blown away by their love, support, and above all, genorosity. This car looks brand new. It drives like a dream, and it's definetly a "me" sort of car. I couldn't thank them enough, or give them enough hugs. I'm not sure what in the world I can do to thank them, but I think they just want grandchildren a little sooner ;) (something we were planning on working on anyways).

So, it's been a very emotional week. I am so blessed to have some amazing people in my life. And while this isn't a pic of MY car, this is a pic of the same car that they bought, color and all. I so love red :cloud9:
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First of all :grouphug: :grouphug:

So glad you are okay. Hopefully you will heal quickly, both physically and mentally. What wonderful people your in-laws are. While we usually hear nothing but bad things about the ILs, you have generous and caring people who obviously love you.

Take care of yourself. Give those ILs a :grouphug:
 
Glad you are mostly ok. You got a great set of IL's to be
 
WOW
glad you are OK
accidents are so scary
i know i totaled my Bronco in FEB

sounds like your inlaws are very special people
I am glad you have them


Make sure you go to the DR really no matter how you are feeling
sometime injuries from an acciedent take a few weeks to totaly show up :grouphug: :grouphug:
 

kaylajr said:
WOW
glad you are OK
accidents are so scary
i know i totaled my Bronco in FEB

sounds like your inlaws are very special people
I am glad you have them


Make sure you go to the DR really no matter how you are feeling
sometime injuries from an acciedent take a few weeks to totaly show up :grouphug: :grouphug:


I have an appointment tomorrow since my head isn't feeling much better. My neck is still sore, also...but I know that's to be expected.
 
I'm glad you're okay! And as a thread posted of bad IL stories, let me say how nice it is to hear a good one!
 
I am so glad that you are OK. You are very lucky to have such wonderful in-laws.
 
Wow. So good to hear you ar not worse than you are. :hug: My best that you feel better soon. And that is great about the new car from future IL's.
 
WOW I am so glad you are OK. Was this guy who hit your drunk? Or just stupid? I hope you have a good lawyer. If not get one. You will need to make sure he doesn't turn the story around in a few months and say it was your fault. Believe me, I talk from experience.
 
awww....they sound wonderful!

Glad that your injuries weren't any worse than they are - take care.
 
Glad you are okay! I too know how it feels to have wonderful in-laws. I don't know what I would do without mine. My DH is now deployed for the 3rd time in 7 years. Each time my in-laws step up and help me with whatever I or our children need.

Again, I am glad that you are okay!!! Take care of yourself.
 
Sorry to hear about your accident, and happy to hear that you made it through alright. How wonderful of you future IL's! That sounds like a great family to marry into!
 
wow, what a story! So glad that you are ok. Very scary story. And your future inlaws, wow, how awesome! Very special people indeed. there's always a silver lining....!
 
Wow! I'm glad that you weren't in DFi's car, that you'll be on the mend soon and that you've got such awesome IL's.

Take care of yourself. Keep us posted on your recovery!

Suzanne
 


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