Somewhat off topic but...I just want to say, take the trips make the memories.
I just got back from taking my 13 year old to a visitation for one of her friends mom. Unfortunately this young lady won't be the only one in the class growing up without one of their parents. There are about 4 in a class of 125 that have lost parents, which I don't think I knew anyone at that age who had a parent that had passed away. The fact that their parents are also around my age (mid 40's) makes it hit home even more to me.
I think everyone here already abides by this train of thought but anyway...take the trips, make the memories. Especially those of you without kids yet. Do the last minute, far flung trips that will be doubly hard when you have more kid-expenses and more peoples schedules to take into account.
Ok, back to happier thoughts....