I think that many people expect or anticipate large amounts of crowds when they plan
Disney vacations around or during the holiday seasons like Xmas and Thanksgiving so I don't think that's the main issue here. I think that since she's not going into the park "commando style" and the fact that her children are young she'll be OK with her current plans. I think that if MK will be the place where they really want to ride then she will need to choose her rides prior to getting there and hitting those first when she gets into that park.
I wasn't suggesting doing commando style. We certainly didn't during our Christmas trip. We had the same situation where we knew we'd be back in the Spring (and in the fall, and at Christmas again

... the joy of an AP LOL). It's just that guidebooks aren't written for what is the busiest 2 weeks all year. Not good for marketing. Normally I think the advice of "used EMH and fast pass and you'll be fine" is great but Christmas week the fast passes are GONE for the entire day before lunch, right up till the midnight park closing. We did EMH parks twice. Magic Kingdom on our first day because it was the boys very first Disney Day and we had breakfast at Crystal Palace and Epcot b/c it was at the end of our trip and the boys hadn't seen Figment yet (no one else was rushing to Figment first thing

). Both days we didn't get there for EMH time but rather at like 8:15ish for Epcot and 9:30ish for MK. I say this because the OP is planning to spend all morning and early afternoon at the EMH park. By the time we left at like 3:00 at MK and 11:00 at Epcot saw wait times of 4 hours for Mission: Space, 2 hours for Thunder Mountain, 2½ hours for Splash, 1½ for Dumbo, 1 for Peter Pan. It's insane! When you don't have a chance to grab a fast pass your choices are "skip it or wait." That adds up to either a LOT of waiting and only being able to do 3, 4 or 5 attractions all day or skipping the "best and biggest" attractions in favor of the little things. Even the little things had big waits. Over an hour for Jungle Cruise etc. Another thing to keep in mind is that the last few years they have started doing 8 am park openings rather than 9 am. That means EMH starts at 7. Getting up at 6 am and having to get 5 people ready, out the door, onto WDW transportation and to the parks from CBR won't get you there at 7 am. Is it worth getting up at 5 or 5:30 to do EMH if you are up till 11 the night before?
I can't stress what a difference it was when we followed Tour Guide Mike's advice. The day we did AK we didn't wait more than 4 minutes for anything except our 2nd ride through the safari and the group waiting for Festival of the Lion King. Doing MK on the day he recommended we had a late morning PS for Chef Mickey's. We got there for regular 8 am opening and had done all of fantasy land (except Philharmagic which we grabbed a fast pass for later in the day), Buzz, Astro Orbiter, TTA all before "brunch." We went back after we ate and saw Country Bears and Tiki Birds then during the first parade (they had the Christmas parade--which we had already seen earlier at like 1:00 and Share a Dream Come True at 3:00) we did Haunted Mansion, Pirates, Jungle Cruise and Magic Carpets. At that time, we were done with everything my kids would ride and we hadn't waited for more than 15 minutes for anything. Typically it was under 10 minutes. We didn't rush and I didn't march them commando style. No chance of that. I had an almost 2 year old and an almost 4 year old.
I know people plan for crowds but, at least in my personal experience hearing how crowded it will be and actually seeing it when you are there is totally different. You know the parks will close at capacity (although I will say that all week, the park that TGM recommended as "least crowded for this day" did not close even once) but you can't understand what it feels to be standing on main street usa when that happens. You also totally underestimate how tiring it is to be standing in lines and fighting through crowds to get anywhere.
I think you can still have a fabulous trip no matter what. It's just my opinion that it's less tiring, less stressful and more fun (especially for the kids!) to avoid the crowds as much as possible. "Avoid the crowds" being relative of course! It's still crowded...but at least you can MOVE at the least crowded park. The only thing I've ever experienced in my life where it felt as crowded as MK felt when it was totally full and we were on Main St. was being on Burbon Street during Mardi Gras!
Does tourguidemike have a trial period for prospective customers to try to see if they like it first? If so, then I just might have to check it out.
No, he doesn't offer a free trial but he does offer a money back guarantee if you aren't satisfied.
The least crowded parks info is invaluable, at least IMHO. The touring plans, parade and fireworks viewing tips are a plus but most important is the "Christmas Week Survival Guide." It's also very helpful that he updates it as they make changes to the schedule. This year's December schedule looks a lot like what last year's initial release looked like but it is nothing like what it ended up being after they are done making changes. They will likely shuffle EMH parks, openings moved to 8 am even if they don't advertise the change (last year they did), two spectros, THREE fantasmics etc. daily. He keeps the advice current through all the changes. He now has boards set up where he actually does pop in and answer questions himself. Go to
www.tourguidemike.com and read about it. Read his credentials too.
Yes, it's spending another $18 or so, but consider what you are spending on the vacation as a whole. Is it worth less than the cost of a counter service meal for the family to get expert advice on how to get the most out of your stay? Everyone is different but for us, the answer was yes. I know people say you can get the same advice on the boards for free but I respectfully disagree with that ESPECIALLY during Christmas week. The best tips he offered were in direct contradiction to what is suggested on the boards for that week. I was so impressed with it I've used it for both our Spring and Fall trips. I still think it's worth the money even for regular or low season but it's not as important as it is during peak times like Christmas or Spring Break. You can find similar advice on the boards for regular or low season but honestly, his survival guide can not be beat for the holidays.
Just my opinion of course.
