I set a date and I have no problems going out and getting it. I know he just puts everything off because he has issues (they have been confirmed on DIS)buying things.
We have been looking for a house for 2 years. He also pretended to shop for a T.V. for 4 years until I told him he could either be with me when I bought one or not, but we were getting one in a week.
He doesn't care if I spend money on myself (I have spent more than this on a hair cut) or the kids mostly because he knows I am not an overspender. Only if it is in electronics or anything in Home Depot does he really want to actually purchase it.
He didn't bat an eye when I booked the disney trip but certain things he has issues with, it is sooooo irritating.
Yes, it is annoying as heck sometimes but it would be far worse to be on the other end of the spectrum and have him running up debt and spending recklessly.
I can honestly say that is his major fault, but it is also a gift in some respects.
He knows that either he gets it by Saturday or I go to
Best buy and get it. I am not going to go through the motions
again to look at prices when he insists on doing it and I am not wasting any more of my time, when he said he would do it. I will happily walk into Best buy and pay whatever the going rate is at the store.