I understand that minister's wives are not perfect, but NO ONE, especially a person of influence and authority in a child's life should be saying things like "throw a dart in it." That's just beyond rude and tacky. I have had strong feelings about recent administrations and never once said anything remotely close to that to my class or really in general because its just wrong. Personally, I would be done with that teacher, but that's just me. She doesn't seem like she understands that you need to respect the Presidency. And quite honsestly, if any of our former or sitting Presidents would like to invite us over for a BBQ, we will be there!
Jessica