unknown quantities?
Good luck, i know you will have fun planning for this change!
I'm not even going to attempt to catch up. so i'll just hop on board here.![]()
Ok...
I am a little FREAKED!!!!!
The Cast for my December trip (December 14-20 with Rachel and Family) has gone from 7 to.......
I don't even KNOW how many more.
A whole group of folks that Rachel knows (including kids, adults and grandparents) will be joining for "one or two" days...
So...a wrench in our plans...what an understatement!
It is a good wrench! But back to the drawing and planning board for me! For a planners...this is just nuts!
We leave in....
ONE MONTH!!!!! (as of tomorrow)
We had a similar thing happen to our group in feb 08. Some friends of one of our group were in town. They wanted to join us for a day or two.
What we did was keep our basic schedule the same. If they wanted to join us, they could. We stayed together for some of the day and split for part of it. As for meals, same thing
In your case, it's so late in the game that planning a get together especially surrounding a meal might be tough...unless you plan some CS meals together.
It's doable and it really wasn't that bad.
Good luck with that - I do know for Florida residents there are numerous ticket options - perhaps after one day (expensive at $75) they could upgrade to a FL AP for a little bit more!! (I think its $145 for FL residents, but there are restrictions - check out mousesavers.com)
However, you just cant change some people's mind. They either "get" Disney, or they dont. and I've found, I just have to let it go!! Seriously our neighbor's went and they were going to get there at noon - during a very busy time - no adr, no plans - dd was even trying to get them to understand. I think they went on 3 rides total!! and dont understand our joy when we return!
I like your plan to have them join you on the party day - spend the day at DTD? maybe do a CS at the resort? Good luck!
Epcot is just huge so it makes sense to go there - but it makes no sense to alter all your best laid plans!
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I hope you are able to work the details out so it works for everyone. Don't stress too much about it because not knowing them that well, you just don't know what to expect.
I love your tree that you decorated for Dax. We started decorating on Wed. and then we stopped about half way through. We may finish tonight.
I have a feeling that this will work out just fine for you guys, Maroo..just handle it with your typical grace and charm and you'll be all set. That being said, I can understand the stress it entails when you've been planning for months and a wrench gets thrown into the works.![]()
I really hope they decided to join you on your MK day instead of Epcot. It would be near impossible to get more people added to your ressie, especially for CP. Unfortunately, as they are not Disney fanatics and dont't comprehend that a reservation can be considered an accomplishment I doubt they would be very understanding if they had to wait around while you ate at Le Cellier or enjoyed the CP. No matter what, promise me you won't contemplate cancelling your reservations to accommodate the additional cast!
Don't worry...I don't plan changing the Le Cellier ressie at all. But...if that is what Rachel really wants to do...then I would go with that.
I am really trying not to be "married" to these plans. Much like my trip with Lauren - I want this trip to be all about Rachel and Ellie and their family - if they want to cancel an ADR...well...oh well. If they wake up and decide they want to go to Epcot for PM EMH on the Worst Day of the Year...well, Ok.
I think I will be disappointed if we skip the plans and end up getting everything all messed up... but if we miss something I planned to do something they would rather do...and they are happy...then I will be happy! I get to go to Disney a lot...they may never get back...at least not with this group of people.
I also don't think I am mentioned Rosemary much. Rosemary is one of Rachel's best friends from growing up. Rosemary is a college student and about the same age as Rachel.
Rosemary has had a very hard life. BOTH of her parents were murdered. And not at the same time, either. A very crazy man was obsessed with her Mother. He actually killed her Father - in an attempt to get closer to her Mom. A while later he killed her Mom and then himself on the same day - after she told him that she did not want a relationship with him. Just tragic.
Rachel and her Mom have been like family to her for years. Rosemary goes on a lot of trips with them.
This will be her first trip to Disney, too.
So...I guess I am just saying... This trip is about them...what they want to do. Hopefully I have saved them some money, helped them plan to maximize their time and will be an asset while they are there to help take some of the pressure off of everyone... But I am really going to try not to stress too much.
I just forgot that this weekend when they said they were going to add a "few" (ok, more like 10) people to the trip.
But I am better now.![]()
Rosemary's story . . . omgosh how tragic! I cannot even imagine!
I know.And I had NO idea when I first met her and for some very strange reason asked her about her parents?!?!
Awkward.
I understand that the trip is about Rachel and her family. But. . . . . . it can still be about them even if you need to take a little side trip for one day to Epcot for the CP dinner package. Would Rachel and mom still be able to get around without your assistance? Are there other new cast members who could help out if not?
I actually have a little "side" trip - sorta - planned. Actually...maybe more than one. I still have a few tricks up my sleeve!
If you didn't want to go by yourself, I'm sure you could find another DISer, maybe even a Wish family, that would like to join you. You give so much to other people, including Rachel and her family. I am certain they would not want you to be disappointed either.
I'm with Stefani on this one, and as much as I know you love your trips with wish families, I'm glad you're planning the ones with All7ofUs and other side trip(s) for yourself as well. You deserve it!
ITA - you do handle things with grace, and love!!
and they will have a great experience coming in for the Party - make sure they come early and hang out at the resort - get to the party at 4pm - lunch at a CS place? (where are you staying this particular trip? )