The grocery industry has changed so much over the years.
A few basic rules that I noticed:
Don't do your heavy grocery shopping between the hours of 4-6 p.m. You will get the nastiest looks.
The less busiest times after 8:00 p.m. at nite or 6-9:00 a.m. in the morning, but watch out for the coffee and donut people.
Beaware on Saturday nites, nothing on the shelves.
I grocery shop at the busiest grocery store in a town of 48,000 The food moves off it's shelves and the produce is always top notch fresh.
Our local grocery store in a town of over 2,000 is good for pick-up things. It is a larger grocery store, but the produce and meat are terrible.
DELSWIFE - I would go crazy too with your situation. You sound like a mom trying to please everyone. You need to sit down with your family and make a list of favorite foods. Make a chart or calendar and make them sign their schedule on it. Crock Pots are a great way to make great suppers. I've gotten to the point, if they don't like it, you don't eat. I have 3 teenagers and a 21 year old son. While the 3 older one's were all in highschool, they were all in sporting events and other things too. They brought friends home too. I would make chili, spaghetti, hot ham sandwiches, chicken breasts and salad. If they didn't like it, too bad. Your letting everyone walk all over you. I just listed 4 meals that you could buy for and that would be 4 less days to go shopping. Freeze, when you need it, micro-wave it to thaw it, then cook it.