I can usually count on about 3 good hours and then I start waking up during the night. I shoot for 5 hours a night, I would love to sleep 8 or 9. I envy people that can do it. Even when I took ambien, if I got 6 hours I felt lucky.
Hey, I tried ambien about a year ago. It really worked at first, but then just didn't seem to help as much. I'd still wake up in the middle of the night.
Here's something my ds's dr recommended for him--ds has trouble staying asleep. Melatonin, 3 mg each night. Its over-the-counter, ds's doctor thinks its ok for long term use. I give it to ds ocassionally, not every night, but he says it seems to help. Also, I give ds Sleepy Time tea sometimes, I also drink it, seems to help. We take it on trips when we're too keyed up to sleep. I prefer something like that over Ambien, especially in a hotel room and unfamiliar surroundings. I'd hate to wake up disoriented in a strange room.
Sometimes I'm so blasted tired I could cry, just aching to get to bed. Then I finally do, drift off to sleep, then wake up again in an hour, awake half the night

Well, maybe I'm a genius--read somewhere that the geniuses of the world, Edison, Einstein, Mozart, all got by with 3-4 hours of sleep/night. so when I'm awake I should be doing something creative, like compose an opera?

I truly envy dh, his head just touches the pillow and he's off to dream land, while it takes me at least an hour to fall asleep, regardless of how tired I am. I've tried all the common sense advice, like limit caffeine towards evening, hove a soothing bedtime routine, have a comfortable environment, keep the bedroom kinda cool, guess I just can't get there.
At least having such a problem I'm more sympathetic towards ds. Dh just says "quit worrying about stuff and go to sleep". Would that it were so easy. I don't "worry about stuff" except getting to sleep! Its not something that's under your control as much as it might seem, its not like there's a sleep button I can push and that's it. Seems the hardest task I have some days is getting to sleep at night! But the tea and melatonin do seem to work, might give them a try.