varies every year. Birthdays around $50 for a gift/gifts. This year we are spending more than we ever have because 2 iPods are on the list but the other gifts will be small.
Birthdays-$50-$100. We spend less on our younger kids because their toys are cheaper. once you start getting into video games/lego sets it is way more expensive.
Christmas- $100-$150.
I am feeling kinda like we cheat our kids after reading this thread! LOL! They also get gifts from 2 sets of grandparents and a few smaller gifts from aunts and uncles.
We always try to get them their top three things and so far luckily these have always been under $150!!!