Christmas has gotten so laid back at my house. My husband's business busy time is around Christmas, he generally works seven days a week from Thanksgiving up until two days before Christmas. So once Christmas rolls around he's exhausted. We never travel at Christmas, some years all the kids (plus more) come home, some years only a couple are home. Holidays are just generally difficult for me, I used to plan every detail and now so much is out of my control, so I try to let go. I decorate and buy gifts. We always have brunch at my parents house and we always order Chinese food for dinner. I've learned to be okay with a lowkey Christmas and am just grateful for whoever I get to spend it with.
Next Christmas we will be heading down to Disney for a trip on Jan 1st for my 50th birthday. That will take up all my holiday planning time.