How long do you go for?

[Evil Genius]

I'm new to going solo. How long does everyone usually go for? A week, 4 days or ??? This will not be my first trip to DW so I know my way around.

Just some background. DH and I had a week long September vacation booked and paid for. Dh has recently passed away and I still want to do this trip. It will be my memorial trip to him. And while I want to do things that he and I all ways did, I also want to do some new things.

Any ideas, advice that any of you have, I would greatly appreciate it.

 

[newholidayx2]

sorry to hear about your DH -

Last Mar I flew to/from FL w/a friend and her DD. They went offsite to a cheering competition 3days/3nights before joining me.

In less than 7wks Im flying down to FL myself. Staying at WDW 8days/7nights. Booked 3 EpCot tours and 8 lunch ARs.

(In Aug Im going w/DS15 for a week)

I'll be returning solo in Nov for my 50th bday. Again staying 8days/7nights.

 

[Donald is #1]

I am so sorry to hear about your DH.

I will be doing my first fully solo trip in May. In the past (not solo), my trips have been 7-10 days. This trip will be 8 days. It will be interesting to see if I feel like it is too long or too short. In my last trip, I was solo 50% of the time and found that I was able to get a lot done in that time. I am hoping that with 8 days, I will slow down & take it a bit easier.

 

[Lady V]

First of all, let me say I am so sorry about your loss. I know there will be sad moments while at the world. maybe bring sunglasses so if you get caught up in the moment and need a good cry you can just not even have to deal with onlookers. Also-I would take a journal and when you go to a spot that has a special meaning for the two of you maybe write it down so that you will have it forever. I think it is great that you are going-God bless you.

 

[JeanfromBNA]

on the loss of your DH. Do what you feel is right.

 

[poohhappy1]

I am so sorry for the loss of your husband. May your trip be filled with happiness and peace.


I can't offer an opinion on length as I am new to the solo trip world. I am starting small (3 days) and hoping I like it enough to go for a week at some point.

 

[spiceycat]

this is my first LONG solo trip - will be there 12 days. staying offsite and onsite.

so sorry for your loss.

okay be prepared to fall apart when you go to his favorite park. Just leave go to one not so special - then later in the week when you are stronger - come back and do his favorite.

most of my solo trips have been short 4 to 5 days (even when staying at a timeshare for 7 days - I just leave early)

you can do alot more in less time being a solo.

for the new things - how about doing a WDW tour or two. You are with a group of others - so good way to meet new people.
http://www.wdwinfo.com/wdwinfo/tours.htm

there is also lots of walking/jogging paths in WDW.
http://www.disneyrunning.com/wdwtrails.html

 

[SlightlyGoofy]

With the distance we have to travel and as slow as I am ten days is the least time I am willing to make the trip for.

We spent 3 whole weeks there with the Free Dining the end of October last year.

My heart goes out to you with the loss of your dear husband. Mine has recently been diagnosed with some serious health problems and his request is Disney and lots of it. I am trying to make his wish come true.

May the happy memories of all you shared be with you on this trip and please know that he will be with in spirit and would want you to be there.

Slightly Goofy

 

[want2bamommy]

I'm so sorry to hear about your DH! I hope that you enjoy your Memorial trip. HUGS!!!

Missie

 

[suzimar57]

sorry for your loss - i've gone solo past years for a week each time - just long enough for me

 

[Evil Genius]

Just a little up date. I've decided to go for 7 days as originally planned. I have a Segway tour booked midweek. I'm thinking I can take my time, enjoy the little things and remember the good stuff. Thank you all for your suggestions.
I hope you all have Magical trips!

 

[Minnie&Nana]

I am so very sorry. I think you are remarkably brave visiting Disney so soon, but I understand.

When my 25 yr old son died unexpectedly, I did not go for 2 years, but finally felt I had to take that step. We had gone to WDW/DL twice yr from the time he was 7 until he was 20.

Honestly, I felt like I was in a bubble most of the 4 night trip...just the same as the first few days after he passed. BUT I felt his presence often ~ it was as though he was letting me know he was with me and I would be okay.

So, I send you much PD that this trip will be blessed in the most unexpected ways. Even in loss we can find a smile...after all, your heart is now his home.

Be gentle with yourself.

 

[Terk-1]

When I go solo, it's usually for 10 days, as I will travel during a holiday weekend (i.e. day after Thanksgiving through the following Sunday). This way I get 10 days at WDW, but only have to use 5 vacation days from work.

When I go with family, it's usually for a week.

 

[blue_eyes5212]

I've not gone solo but I just had to post to
It's nice that you are still going on your trip and hopefully it
will be a wonderful getaway for you. Kind of a recharging of your
batteries after all that you have been through. Have a wonderful
time!!