The crowd level from what I hear will be huge. We are going on the 9th of November and returning on the 19th. The Monday before Thanksgiving. I've done a ton of research and from what I've read, crowds start getting heavy on Sat and then get bigger as the weeks go on. Sat. and Sun. can be crowded anyway because of locals. We are doing Universal on the front end of our trip. We are staying at the Hardrock for $235 AAA rate per night. As much as it pains me to pay this for two nights (plus parking, plus inflated food and drink prices) I don't think I could do Universal without the FOTL access. And, thats not all. They transport you back and forth in a water taxi or it's a 5 min. walk from the HRH. This worked out great for us the last time we went there. The kids (older teens) could hop on the boat at night and go over to Citiwalk (a great place to hang out in the evening) and we could stay back if we wanted.
The FOTL was worth it's wait in GOLD. 5 minute waits versus an hour. The only thing I'm planning for the weekend before we leave (the week your going) is Discovery Cove as they have a cap on how many they let in.
Just though I'd give you my input
Have fun!
Jenn