Help with my new "bff"

[CheezDoodle]

If you don't want to be friends with her anymore, just stop talking to her. Cold turkey. Even if she follows you around and talks to you, don't make eye contact. And don't say a word to you. If she asks you what's wrong, you have to make a personal decision of whether or not you're going to tell her. But like I said, "ignore" her. I know it will be hard, but I have had to do it before. It's rough at first, but she'll get the hint eventually.

My old friend did that to me. And I'll tell you, I cried for hours when I got home. It's not a nice thing to do, I could never imagine doing something so mean to somebody, even if they bothered me and were annoying. Have you ever had somebody do that to you? It sucks.

 

[stitch'sbff]

I friend like that just been at my school since 1st grade. She tried taking one of my bff in 4th grade. She tried to do this again. So we just sarat ingoring her and she final got the point sort of.

 

[BabyPiglet]

My old friend did that to me. And I'll tell you, I cried for hours when I got home. It's not a nice thing to do, I could never imagine doing something so mean to somebody, even if they bothered me and were annoying. Have you ever had somebody do that to you? It sucks.

Actually, yes I have. But I've also been at the other side of the desk. You have too see it from both points of view to know what's best to do.

 

[Sparkle_Cherry]

I can't stand girls that are like: ''OMIGOD, BFF'S 4 EVER!!!!''. Especially when highschool is over (or one of them steals the other's boyfriend) they will probably never speak to each other again.

Honestly, I don't think you should ignore her. If you do that it will just prolong the process, and make her whine even more about how you aren't spending enough time with her. Plus, it might hurt her feelings more that way. I say, you should just tell her that you don't want to be friends anymore, and get it over with. If she cries, oh well, at least you'll know that she got the message.

After you have told her that your friendship is over, then you can start ignoring her. It's just not fair to her if she doesn't know why you're ignoring her, so I think it's best to tell her straight-out. You shouldn't need to tell her twice.

Caitlin