Hi FloridaFever,
I know how you feel; I felt the same on our first trip. How old are your kids? We went with the HRH our first trip because we thought it would be more fun for the kids and then tried the PBH our second trip. We are going back for a week this July and we are returning to PBH, hands down, not that we didnt enjoy HRH. If it's a week trip you are taking you can always split your time between both resorts.
Both hotels have deluxe rooms that are bigger and have a sofa bed (so you dont have to get a roll away) but they do cost more. With 3 kids, the $ for the extra space is worth it to me plus minus the $25 for roll away from the price. Try to check for an
AAA rate - saves a bunch and worth getting a membership for.
We haven't tried a club room - at the PBH it's a deluxe room w/access to the club because the "club" room is in the main building. I think the HRH club rooms are on the upper floors if I remember correctly. We might try and upgrade to a club room when we go this July. We have older kids (15, 11, and 9) so the bang for the buck will be better than if you have younger kids that dont eat that much.
The HRH is a little "cooler" for teens for namesake appeal but after a couple of days, it wears off. You can always visit any of the hotels (You can walk to it from the PBH). We liked the pools much better at PBH - there is only one at HRH. The kids actually like the pool better too, even though the HRH had music piped in underwater. We also found the staff nicer at the PBH and the design of the courtyard is fantastic.
We were worried that the kids might find the PBH stuffy - we were very wrong. There are ducks in the "bay", a great kids pool, great lobby (one night they were serving sample food that the kids loved). So my suggestion is to stay at the PBH and walk to the HRH and walk around, get an ice cream at Emack & Bolios, and then head back to the PBH.
P.S. It doesnt hurt that there is a spa at PBH too.
Hope this helps.