Hi, Welcome to the Fort Board and the RV life. There are lots of books to read as well as stuff online. I think a good website is
http://forums.trailerlife.com/Index.cfm
There is a "Beginning RVing" section where you can start but you might want to look at a few more areas. There are sections on specific types of RVs (like travel trailers) so you can get some relevant information and ask questions.
YouTube has some videos also that might answer some of your questions.
DW and I like to use checklists. We have a packing at home CL, hitch-up and tow CL, camp setup CL, camp tear down CL and put the RV away CL. Using a check list will keep you from forgetting something. Be ready to add to the check lists as you learn.
Before you hit the road, read the manuals you have on the appliances and equipment. Take your time and remember to just relax and have fun. RV are not so complicated that it takes a masters degree in engineering to operate them.
Practice towing and backing in a store parking lot. Find someplace with lots of room and practice backing the TT like you would into a campsite. Also use the parking lot to learn more about how to turn without jumping the curb and get a good feel for stopping and accelerating. Some of that you will learn just towing it home and to the parking lot but you can get a better feel without the pressure of all the traffic.
If you don't have neighborhood restrictions try camping out in your driveway. Where ever you park your TT, practice setting it up, leveling, putting out the slides, anything you can. You may be restricted on what you can do if you don't have shore power (120 Volt electrical hookup to connect to).
After that, find a close RV park or state campground and do a few weekends to gains some experience. Don't be afraid to ask for help or ask questions of your fellow campers.
For DW and me, the Fort is one of the best places to camp (assuming you want a resort type of campground). There are lots of things to do at the Fort, the sites are nice and it is just plain old fun.
Good luck and hope to see you at the Fort someday.