We bought into BCVs in 2003 after much research on all the resorts - SSR was just being offered. I agonized over the decision and worried whether I had chosen the right "home" resort until just last week. We took our first trip "home" to the BCVs, and they were wonderful
Now, you are probably asking yourself, why is she talking up BCV, when I own at SSR and am worried about that resort! Well, at the time I bought in, BCV was the one being bashed - a lot! Lots and lots of negative posts that worried me day and night. Only recently did the tide turn to SSR - sorry, but I breathed a sigh of relief. And before the BCV bashing, it was BWV being ripped to shreds. That is just the nature of the DISboard beast.
We took a quick tour of SSR when we were there last week, and while the resort is not for us (we're beach/hotel people), I can see why lots and lots of folks love SSR. The decor is the nicest of any of the DVC resorts. We saw a one bedroom and the Grand Villa, and we felt like we were in a really rich person's home!
Also, the place is very quiet, or at least it was when we were there. It is not a hotel atomosphere, but that is precisely why many like it. It had more of a condo/subdivision feel to me. FYI...we never made it to the main area of the resort (check-in, restaurants, etc.). We parked right in front of the "homes" we toured. What an advantage you have there! At BCV, BWV, and VWL ya got some walking to do - though it's not as bad as folks let on.
My suggestions to you...
1.) Do your best not to worry about your choice to buy-in at SSR. I worried for two years for nothing. I
love our "home," and I have a feeling you will love yours. Something in your heart told you to go with SSR. If you had really wanted another resort, you would have been absolutely driven to pursue resale or checked with Disney to see if they happened to have anything else available at the time.
2.) Make your first stay as DVC members at SSR - this is a must in my book! I believe this is crutial, and I don't often see this advice. Your "home" is SSR, and since your first trip as DVC members will be magical, that will have you falling in love with the first resort you stay at. You want that to be your "home," not somewhere else.
3.) Remember the sequence of bashing that goes on (first it was BWV, then BCV, now SSR) and that maybe all the negative posts do serve a purpose to bring about change. Folks are all over the newest offering. There is obviously some truth to what they are saying, but it is their truth, not yours. Maybe they feel better bashing the new offering, so they don't feel bad about their own decision. And the bashing does bring about change at the resort. I mentioned the DISboards to a manager at BCV, and they said they are very familiar with them. They read these posts!!!
4.) Each DVC resort is unique and has it's own advantages. Honestly, I could make a case for buying into all of them! Just wish I had the money

I really believe DVC plans it that way. They want each resort to make you want to own there. VWL - Christmas. BCV - Storm Along Bay. BWV - Boardwalk GVs. OKW - Lowest Points and largest rooms. HHI and VB - the ocean of course! CR - Monorail. Oops. That one hasn't happend yet

Anyway, you get my point.
You have locked your family into a lifetime of wonderful vacations. How could you not have a good time at SSR. It's got beautiful accomodations, amazing GV's, drive up access to your villa, is walking distance to Downtown Disney and all that place has to offer, a great pool with what I understand is a great kiddy area. Seriously, all is well. No worries
