I have only ever been at a park at rope drop once, and I didn't even experience it, because I was inside the park eating breakfast.
We've been at a park extremely close to opening a couple times other than the above mentioned time.
We sleep in on vacation, take our time eating breakfast, then watch the news or web surf, and then maybe even go swimming before hitting the parks. We are not commandos. The goal is not to get to a park and ride everything within it as many times as we can (although, I understand why many do). We are happy riding a few rides and maybe catching a show. We are always able to accomplish this by the time we get there, and that is with or without EMHs.