This is perfect timing, I was just going to post something similar to this and was still sorting my feelings out.
If you live across the country and plan a week or so for sometime in the far future, it's no big deal to get ADRs. But anything sooner than that, and you can forget it. Florida residents, for one, are really suffering. Spontaneity is no longer available. I have taken my kids to Disney in January, a month when there has NEVER been a problem getting a table service restaurant. Now, as soon as you walk into any park, there is a sign at guest services that says all table services are full and there are no reservations open. We went to MK a week ago, all TS were full, and CS closed an hour before the park closed.
When you do get an ADR, the table service is rushed, favorite dishes are being removed, and yes, the kids are terrible. And I'm a mom of two small ones. I don't expect a child to sit perfectly quiet, but I do expect a parent not to allow a child to run around the restaurant. I do not believe my children have the right to ruin everyone else's meal. The quality, in my opinion, is heading down hill.
So...what now? I don't know. I do love the DIS and don't think there is too much information. I mean obviously, I have the opportunity right now to state how I feel...that's sayin' somethin'! My husband is looking forward to going to Le Cellier in March, and I have this nagging feeling it is not going to be what we've waited for.
So what do we do? Is there any answer?