Been there many times. We actually stay in Rodanthe but the two run together. I choose Rodanthe because the ocean is more accessible-lower dunes, better views. You just can not beat this area. I've been lucky to have vacationed many places and this is the best spot for relaxing, scenery, family time and seafood I've found in the United States. Plenty to do or do nothing 'cept hang at the beach and fall into bed after a great dinner. Remember to eat at The Hot Tuna-lunch or early dinner and very casual. Also, skip the hot dog place- might be called Ernie's. Plan a day for Ocracoke Island-get there on the free car ferry from Hatteras Village-the beaches are remote, go on and on and there is almost no one there. Surf is great in Rodanthe, Waves, Frisco, Buxton!!! Are you renting oceanfront? Try Midgett and do an advanced search for oceanfront, 5 bdrm, Rodanthe, private pool....they have several that are a little smaller so possible in a high midrange price category. Sun Realty has a couple too. The house we normally rent just sold and will be popping up somewhere with a new name I'm sure. We actually booked a condo on the sound this year because we're staying two weeks and I wanted to have some spending money-seafood ain't cheap!!! The condos we use are really nice, called Sunset Resort and are in Rodanthe with Midgett Realty - 5 minute walk to the beach and over a low dune. Great views of sunset-right on the sound, large pool shared by 6 units, each unit has a soundfront hot tub.